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    hit626 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Advice On Going At It Alone

    Hi there gents

    I have no experience to my name (proper AFC) and I don't want to let my friends in on what I'm doing - they won't understand the bigger picture.

    Just wanted to hear your experiences on going at it alone. Did it work for you at my level of no experience or did it just put you off the idea even more (approaching alone)?

    I understand there are growing pains, just wanted to get some advice and hear experiences.

    Thanks

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    Jack Sherwood is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Advice On Going At It Alone

    Yo...I've been studying the game for more than a few years. It works...and believe me i'm NO natural.

    only one friend in all the years I have ever "let in" on the "secret". (He was semi-natural, and blew us all away when he found his HB10 that'll most likely be his wife someday sooner than later.

    IMO...this is NOT info you want your buddies to know. You'll soon be watching them, and knowing what mistakes they made. In that same frame, you'll also see 'naturals' and those are the guys you want to hang with to hone your craft. Be the wingman. Take one for the team. Practice. When your time comes to take point you'll know, and so will your wing.

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    agathy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Advice On Going At It Alone

    I'm a super beginner myself, so this is something I deal with. I remember before I even started getting into this, when I decided to go out alone. I went to a huge club (if you live in a super big city I'd recommend it) and it was great because no matter how many of my approaches failed or how nervous or lame I felt because I was alone, most of the people couldn't observe it anyway. This particular night, I was the definition of AFC, but some sexy older woman made some eye contact with me and we started dancing. I think she was trying to find someone for her ugly friend, but I just ended up annoyingly sticking on her while being nice to her friend. Left for 5 am dinner and drinks with them, got a few kisses out of it, and you know what? Although she wasn't interested, she turned out to be a pro fashion stylist. She took me shopping a few times and that alone improved my game just as much as any technique has. I even go out with her and her friends sometimes.

    Make sure to follow the three second rule, especially if you're in a smaller place. One thing I like to do if the place has a lot of people is to plant myself in a group of AFC's and have them talk to you (let them initiate). They're generally pretty friendly especially if you are real to them. I've done that before and when it was clear I was not part of their group, just some interesting guy who shows by his body language that they're the ones interested in me, girls kind of move in on you because you're a leader of men. That's a great way to start your night.

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    Kaybee is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Advice On Going At It Alone

    Going out alone is IMHO, better. Might be because I'm a bit anti-social, but I rather like going out alone more. Exception is cute female friends who give you social proof.

    The only times I would prefer going out with a wing is when I'm going clubbing and we can pump each other up through a series of hi fives and shouting. Really gets you in an upbeat mood.

    I am pretty new to this myself, and it's helping me tremendously TBH. I'm actually moving from night time sarging with wings to day gaming on my own and I can see better, more concrete results already

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    hit626 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Advice On Going At It Alone

    Thanks for the advice gents. Have you felt that you've grown faster, or has it slowed down your development?


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