Got banned from posting this on another forum....guess I broke one of its rules
Hey guys just trying to get a feel for this.
I've paid a ton of money (would rather not say how much) to be coached to approach women (day game only). I did pretty good. I approached about 30-50 women in one day (hard to keep count) and impressed my coach. I remember him having a shocked look on his face on one approach and saying "man that was really alpha of you". I remember telling him after that "a real alpha is a man who knows what he wants out of life and goes for it."
The dayafter driving back home I approached about 2 1/2 girls (1/2 cause midgets only count as half a person....okay she opened me right before I was about to....so I'm giving myself a half there). Even the two before were bad....the first was an Indirect Approach where I chatted for 5-10 minutes but never made it sexual...the second I awkwardly said youre cute...she laughed...I said sorry...she said thats okay....and quickly walked away from embarrassment. Not so alpha after all I guess lol
After that It pretty much went back to 0. I will approach once in a while (bars, clubs, and malls), but very rarely and it was just pleasant conversation...not really pickup. I talked to another PUA coach about going from opening 50 girls to 0. He said it sounded like I just needed a friend in pickup where I was living to keep me motivated.
So I searched the different PUA Forums looking to meetup with people. Problem was everyone (almost everyone...last guy seemed cool but I was getting tired of it) I would meet from PUA forums were AFCs or AFCs and had very rotten personalities. It was the blind leading the blind...nothing good came from it....just more theory from these guys. We would just sit around and not approach like we should...I think they just wanted a friend... :/ It made sense, why would a good or even expert PUA want to meet up with me. I can't offer them any value (women or bettering his skills). But I can offer cash....
The more I think about my day with my day game coach it really boiled down to one hour of straight approaching (the 4 hours of theory was really a waste and the lunch and dinner was more theory/general conversation and 2-3 hours of approaching had a bunch of talking about how to do better).
Anyways, any of you guys who consider themselves (or even better others who consider them) to be awesome PUAs would be interested in a $100 for an hour of their time? It really is just more of a push to approach is what I need not a lecture on theory. Once I get a feel....I can figure out if I'll be in your area or if you are in mine (LA, Vegas, or Scottsdale)