Ultimate List of Negs

Your hair looks shiny, is it a wig? Oh well it looks nice anyway

Thats lovely long hair, are they extensions?

I think your hair would look better up (or down)

Nice nails. Are they acrylic. Oh, well they look good anyway.

Awww, how cute, your nose wiggles when you laugh. look there it goes again!

Is that your natural hair color?
well its not bad
So you changed it to that?

I like your look, lot's of girls have beauty but you seem like you have character.

Has anyone ever told you that you have U shaped teeth.

Well at least you have a nice bod.

You are nearly as tall as me. I like tall girls. Are those heels 3 or 4 inches?

You have an interesting figure.

Did you drink too much last night?

I think I like your left eye best...

Your eyeliner has run a bit

Uhm. Did you know your palms are kinda sweaty.

You have some lint on your shirt...

Did you wear that same outfit last night?

I like that skirt, remember how popular they were last year?

Those shoes look really comfortable, are they?

Hello? Uhm Im talking, wait your turn.

Uhm, you know that it's way too early in our relationship for you to touch me like that.

Does she have an off button?

I bet that you were you a pretty big dork in school

And THAT is exactly why we won't be able to own nice things (if she does something clutzy).

You kind of remind me of my crazy x-girlfriend.

Some pretty good ones there, I didn't read all but the last one is something I've tried heh.

Both GREAT!

These are good.

Very nice! We should all add to this list.

I have one. When she says something, just reply with:

"Oh. (pause) you're one of THOSE girls."

Good idea, making it a sticky.

pretty decent negs

So negs are like negatives that you should, or should not use?

ragr - "negs" are meant to lower a woman's perceived value (inherently raising your own). This was made popular by the mystery method. Myself or my friends/coaches do not advocate 'negging' unless you are total beginner at PUA. It is much more effective to come in with high value and then raise the value of people around you.

That works much better than putting people down.

Sometimes you can neg, but only if it is truly teasing and coming from a good place.

yeah i'm a total beginner..I guess i should stick with raising people's value around me then

Some great lines, used some last night.

About using negs, I don´t think negs are only for beginners at PUA, the funny lines used in an ironic way will make the girl laugh and u can even start kino from it.

Cheers.

Man I love this forum. Been reading all day but this is my favorite tactic. been neg'ing for years, AND advising friends on it and never new it was an ART. Some of those I've used, some are all new and very funny, I'll try and think of a couple. some of these seem mean, but you totally have to feel the situation. A lot of girls respond positively to this kind of conditioning..especi ally the super hot bombshells that expect nothing but worship. Also helps to have a couple of lesser- hot decoys that you can charm when you're breaking the mustang... these are not advised for guys looking for a wifey!


If they just had their hair done.. say "how much? you got ripped."

new nails "ew, I like natural" (evidently they pay a LOT for them..)

give a lock of her hair a tug, particularly if she's looking away or being unattentive.

if she has a stray hair, just one, inspect it with interest and maybe both hands until you both are studying it, (and she's wondering, wtf?) then pull that sucker out.

"Wow, you have big hands."

Calling a girl "man"

Say "Lady" in a tone, like "Lady, don't." (same as how a brother might say 'WOMAN" but with a vener of "maybe you dont know what I mean.." a very thin venere.

calling her "little girl" can be a neg, but also endearing, depending on mood/ tone setting.

Pick their best characteristic (in their mind) and bomb it.


This is one I ONLY use on skinny or LESS than average body wieght "you're kinda fat." (ALL GIRLS TAKE OFFENSE.. not recommended on even NORMAL wieght girls)

flick her. (this ones rude, especially in the temple or ear, nicer on the shoulder or hand, and I should add, this is after repport has been built, *some* sort of mutual understand attraction)

If a chick tries to neg you, especially in a group or in front of friends, her's, or yours, accuse her of "flirting like a 3rd grader." That'll blush her her up and let her know your hip to the game.

there are some of these that may be considered "psycological abuse" and not to be used by PUA's who aren't already using these techniques/ discovered them. I've used a lot harsher techniques when circumstances merited it, especially with hard azz bad azz bizzies. Sometimes it may look like the 'jerk' or 'flirting like a third grader' ...but used right, these up your value at her expense.. and we're not talking about making friends here