This is my first post on here, I just registered, been lurking for a while, and I got a lot of good advice and confidence from these forums, I would like to first thank everyone on here for that.
So I decided to try the online dating thing, since its pretty slow and boring in my town and I am not going to school having graduated hs last year.
I set up a profile on ok cupid, took the same pic from my fb, wrote a good summary about myself making it clear I like doing fun things, travel, adventure etc etc.
I had just finally started to message girls lately, and my first one just a stupid "hey hows it going" of course got no reply, she was barely even a 6 tho anyway, basically I've been messaging anyone hot even if they aren't 100% my type, just to get some experience.
So I would read their profile and just compliment them on something ,sometimes just make a quick joke or comment, and just end it, those types of messages have seemed to work with at least 80% replying.
ANYWAY, crazy thing is there is this cute hb in my town I met about almost a yr ago, only saw her 2 or 3x, each time lightly flirted, but I thought my friend a yr younger than me who would always pick her up to chill was trying to go for it, but he hesitated and even though they would meet up at 4 am and all in the summer he never made his move, and she complained to some mutual friends about this,
Around then he would kinda try to see what I thought of her, I always said shes tooo young (shes 3 or 3 1/2 yrs younger than me) and he was like yea thats why I didnt wanna make my move and I was just laughing on the inside, hes just a poor AFC
So weird thing is she looked at my profile on okc yesterday and I saw this a few hrs later, and messaged her on there, at first I was gonna be like hey wtf you doing on this damn site -- your not 18 or some sh1t but I stopped my self and came up with this sh1t:
(in a way I now I wish I just said hey - what the heck are you doing on here to get a better convo going,) what i wrote-
"hey its really funny cause I could swear there's this mad chill girl who also lives in (my town) who like just grabbed the exact same picture as her fb profile mad quick like I did, just to put it on this lame ass site and see whats good, and I think her name started with an A also, it's just such a bizarre coincidence, but since your 18 I guess I must be thinking of someone else right?"
And she writes back this morning :
"yeah its really funny cause I dont know if u recall but I'm friends with [(my AFC friend), (c, another long time friend of mine) and v (c's gf of 2+ yrs now)] nd weve met a few times, and I'm not18 .nd yeah this site was a stretch for me nd I don't enjoy it much at all "
I doubt she would be coming on here, but I didn't want to use their actual names cuz ya neva kno
so how should I even respond? Is she pulling some kind of slight sh1t test or something here?