please evaluate the following:
Through an onlinedating site I met a nice women. She had no pic uploaded (I had) but the profile was cool so I took the chance. After a couple of messages I was like "wow". Then she offered me to share Facebook profiles. Well, it doesn't get much better than this...we wrote facebook messages about once per day until we finally met 2 weeks later. Up to this point it was just a nice contact, but in our date she completely swept me off my feet.
To my surprise she greeted me with a kiss on the cheek telling me I was smelling good, she physically teased me a couple of times, she was smiling at me like all night, she was interested in what I was doing in work etc... However I was somewhat passive, even when we had a walk after dinner I couldnt overcome my shyness to take her hand or something. Obviously I also didnt kiss her when we said goodbye even though I saw all the signs and knew she wouldnt reject it. I only acted "correctly" once, when she told me in the middle of the conversation that she felt warm and touched her cheek, I also did and confirmed (in fact it was true lol). Besides the fact that I'm an idiot, do you think that my behaviour scared her off or should I assume that she really likes me and maybe even finds my shyness "interesting"? While she agreed on seeing me again (before the failed goodbye where I briefly hugged her), I just feel that she expected more and might think that I'm asexual/nerd/not interested.
After that night I wrote her on facebook again and thanked her for the nice evening. Reply took 2 days.I know she is busy with exams and I saw that she didnt login to the onlinedating site either. However, the day she replied me, she did login there too. So...what's the deal? did I fail or will I get a 2nd chance on the 2nd date? Or would she just meet with me again on a "friend" basis (no romantic intention)
thanks for reading