Hello everyone, I'm new to this forum. However I've read a lot of material but I am having a hard time to change from a AFC to a PUA. So here is my story.
My buddy has a relationship with a HB10 for like a year now. I always felt (very very) attracted to her but obviously I will never act on that. But turns out she has a sister. Just as hot. She saw pictures of me and told her sister (my buddy's girl) I was hot. So long story short she added me on Facebook, started chasing me, we were talking more and more, I did everything to be a challenge for her and it worked, got into a relationship. Honeymoon period since then. Actually I was really happy when I started dating this girl cause she is the most beautiful girl I ever dated. I do realize how beta this sounds. Hate to say this but I have freaking butterflies for this girl. Anyway I really try too avoid being too sweet and available.
My first problem is that she is freaking gorgeus and its hard sometimes not too treat her like a princess. I know when I'll start doing that I gonna loose her cause I'll be the nice guy.
So I try to avoid treating her like a princess but I did let my guard down a few times already by being too sweet and nice.
She does really treat me nice and I love it. Although she has a bad temper sometimes.
Anyway just yesterday we had a little argument, and she was doubting if I really cared for her. So I thought what the heck I just gonna be honest: I told her I havent felt this way for a girl in a long time. After I said that she kissed me and hugged me and looked at me with a very in-love stare and we made love. She also apologised to me for getting mad over nothing. However perhaps I should've just walked away when she was acting irrational in stead of that I acted calm and patient. But it did seem to work cause she ended up apologising.
However today she acted cold distant and didnt even call me "baby" like she ALWAYS does, and didnt really pay much attention to me.
Did I made a mistake by telling her how I feel about her? Should I kept it a mystery? And now should I act cold and distant untill she chases me again? When we just met each other she was always the one chasing me, but lately I call her every morning and stuff. Am I letting my guard down too much by giving her too much attention?
I messed my last relationship up by putting the girl on a pedestal and chasing her too much. I read a lot on this forums and promised myself to not let this happen again. However I find myself in this situation again, putting her on a pedestal because of her beauty, and I have to act before I lose another beautiful women by letting her take over the power.
I've been seing her every day. Shall I stop doing this and cut back to 2-3 times a week? Also in the beginning I made her chase me and always waited for het to iniate contact. When I got comfortable I started calling her and iniating contact. Big mistake? Should I just stop chasing her, relax, and if she doesnt chase me just next her?
Any advice is very welcome.