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    Game Changer is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default To have an ego or not?

    So I have been thinking about this for quite a while and how I should approach it; the size of one's ego.

    In reading direct approach material, a lot of people preach to completely get rid of your ego. That way when you approach, you are on the same "level" as the girl. Also, if you should happen to get blown out it won't affect you in the slightest. However, to DHV you need to tell interesting stories, sell your self and come off as a better than thou person.

    Seems like you need to keep yourself grounded while trying to make the girl qualify herself to you.

    Any input or advice guys on the whole ego thing?

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    Default Re: To have an ego or not?

    DHV stories don't work from my experience. Having a lifestyle your confident with and being in the moment makes you look attractive. Your non-verbal communication is much more meaningful than a story.


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