Pretty new to the game, only started reading up on this a couple of weeks ago, but i think i might have a good chance to test this stuff out on a chick at work I've just gotten to know.So here's where I'm at... hope someone can help
So I work in this place that is pretty tight, and you can always have a good convo with any of the people that are working, even when sh1t gets busy... well anyway, recently this new girls starts working there. We have a couple convo's and she's really cool and we hit it off with a good rapport (everyone who works here is pretty friendly with each other), so it's all looking sweet... all the while im still kind of ignoring her every now and then, just to keep her interested.
Then the weekend rolls around...
I'm out at a party and I see this chick, so i go up to her, give her a drink, have a quick convo, meet a couple of her friends, then make an excuse and leave after being there only briefly. sh1t goes well i think.
Then i go back up to her later, have another quick convo and ask her what she's up to after the party. she says she'll probably go out clubbing so i give her my number, tell her to text me if she does and we'll party. (maybe shouldn't have given her my number? ah well i think it worked out well)
So then the party ends pretty quickly, and she texts me about 20 mins later (now i have her number). I ask what shes up to blah blah blah, she says shes gonna go clubbing and i say "text me if you end up going out and we'll party"
Then I get no reply from her for the rest of the night, but i go out and have a great night anyway.
The next day:
Late in the afternoon i get a text from her asking how my night was (wassssssssup).
I reply and we text-chat for a few hours before she says shes going to sleep.
basically the main points I can gather from the conver are these:
- she said she didn't text me because she was partying too hard and was a "slack bitch" to which i replied something like, "yea soooooo slack haha" - joking about and sh1t.
- then we both said some funny sh1t for a while
- then we talked about weather either of us were working nights this week, she said nah, i said nah, and we both said we'd be out partying on the weekend.
- so i said, she better make sure she texts me this time and we can party and talk smack to strangers together (we joked about doing that earlier) - to which she said she would be very keen and definitely would text me.
and that was the weekend, which i think went alright.
then we had work together today, she didn't know i was working, I didnt know she was working, but when she saw me she had one hell of a smile on her.
I kept it pretty cool today, with some good conversation but mostly ignoring her, chucking in a couple of negs here and there, asserting my dominance in the work place(playfully) and chatting to her when she talked to me. (never being mean, always being nice, but keeping her interested? i think?) was that a good move? anyway, when she left she gave me one hell of a smile again.
So now we have one more short shift working together before the weekend, so what do I do on that shift? try to up the game a bit more? get more comfortable? get a bit flirty? but how?and when the weekend rolls around and I know she'll be out, should I text her?
I never manage to have trouble getting this far with girls, but any further and I'm absolutely lost. So where to from here friends?
Sorry for the excessive detail, but hope it all helps.
Thanks for reading guys and hope someone can help me out!