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    Dark Silver Wolf is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How do I get my ex-gf back?

    I've been reading a lot of articles about how to get my ex-back but none of them seem to make sense to me.

    I've been dating my girl for 10 months now close to 11 months on saturday, but we were fighting so much for the past two months that she started to drift away from me, I realized it too late but we're still dating, it feels like she's an ex to me because yesterday when I talked to her she confessed that she's starting to like someone for three days now, I told her that I know I screwed up a lot and I totally didn't see this coming, I'm willing to forgive you for everything that you've done but please, stop it.
    But her reaction was just empty, by the time I fell asleep she cuddled with me and kissed me in the nose and embraced me. I'm so confused right now. I need help before I do something unimaginable.

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    Default Re: How do I get my ex-gf back?

    I just joined this forum and this is one thing I will be talking about a lot in my posts, inner game. Your internal dialogue and how you carry yourself is the big picture...

    Forget about your girlfriend or "ex" or whatever illusion it is that you have of her. The point is there is something conflicting in you and she knows that. There could equally be something wrong with her emotional wiring too but that's not the point.

    You are playing HER game right now. I don't mean to be harsh but you need to own your balls. Don't put up with her sh1t. She is liking someone else??? Are you farking kidding me and then she's trying to manipulate your by cuddling up and giving you whatever false sense of affection you're looking for? BULLsh1t.

    She knows you are weak and will not hesitate to fark another man. I say this sh1t because I've been there and I care. I don't want to see yet another guy fall to the whim of a girl. Girls are harsh but that's their design. They seek out survival qualities in men and that's not their fault...just like we seek out replication and therefore want to fark multiple women even when we are in relationships...

    I'm getting carried away but the point is you need to dig deep within yourself and first ask the question "What kind of man am I and what do I want from this situation." Once you are sure of yourself you then make that clear to anyone you are with.

    I know I do not know the whole story and 10-11 months is a long time. There are ALWAYS exceptions to things and nothing is ever absolute, but what I'm telling you is the big picture of living life.

    I wish you all the best brother...just don't ever let another person bring you down. Don't live for other people.

    Best Regards,
    Seph

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    seph is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How do I get my ex-gf back?

    I just realized how much I love this site!

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    Dark Silver Wolf is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How do I get my ex-gf back?

    To be honest man, I wanna get her to want me even more than the way she did before, I want to wipe that guy's chance to zero, It also feels like she pities every word I say, I will try to hold out before our anniversary on april 3 which is like a month away. but the best part about it is that her friends don't know what she's up to, and only one of them knows and she's totally siding me and she wants to persuade my "gf" as you said it earlier. I'm currently on a break with her till saturday, and she told me, "if we are really meant to be, we will be together no matter what happens."

    I felt really betrayed bro, I wish I can improve my inner game right now and just get this over with.

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    Default Re: How do I get my ex-gf back?

    It's gonna hurt man, but I promise you, you'll get over it.

    And guess what, you'll have more heart breaks...but the one thing you do have control is YOU. End this sh1t on YOUR terms. Tell you "gf" to F*** off and stand your ground when doing so.

    This is a big step but you gotta take charge. Be harsh because I can tell you for a fact that she doesn't think twice about her actions. As my mentor, Arash Dibazar, says "so be it."

    Do this and I GUARANTEE you that you that she will come back to you. This may in weeks or months or years. But the point is that you move on.

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    Default Re: How do I get my ex-gf back?

    Bro, I want to save it for the sake of our relationship, if it's not worth saving anymore, I'll move on I have till saturday to decide on things as well, time is gold indeed, and wounds don't heal with time, it heals with dedication and commitment to moving forwward. I maybe playing her game right now but later on, she will come crawling back to me, I was once in a secret meeting with Style a while back in Chicago and I learned a lot from him but I just threw it away due to the fact that our relationship was deeper than just the inner game. but now it's shatter of many layers of pain, resentment, disloyalty, dishonesty, doubts, and distrust.


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