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    Default College guy in urgent need of help.

    Alright, so I met this girl inn one of my classes. I got her number easily after I ran my normal routine, asking her to be study buddies, and we started texting 15 minutes later while sitting next to each other. Next class, this other guy tries to out amog me and talk to her, but her responses are just to the point. I say something random and she starts laughing like its hilarious. She continues to give me IOIs over the next few classes and then run pretty good texting game on her. Here's the problem, I set up plans with her on three seperate occasions to study these last few days and she flakes everytime, but with serious excuses (shes in the hospital first time, friend died in a car crash, had to help parents, who she lives with, with moving furniture). Ive heard lots of excuses and these seem to me like reasonable ones instead of the crap I'm used to hearing. Plus, shes also sending me paragraphs where she just says "Im Sorry " over and over and swears its just a strwak of bad luck and not on purpose. Where should I go from here? I need help with this!!!

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    Default Re: College guy in urgent need of help.

    In this scenario, I have a feeling she's honest. One would have to have a sick mind to keep coming up with serious excuses such as those. It could possibly be bad luck.

    If she's sending paragraphs, that's a pretty good indicator of the truth.

    Don't rush her (don't spam her with texts/calls) with getting together (in case she speaks the truth), but be persistent. If she creates another excuse as drastic as those, she's probably lying.
    Always feel free to PM me

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    Default Re: College guy in urgent need of help.

    Ok. normally, I freeze girls out in situations till they text me. We got spring break next week so we wont see each other for at least a week. Would it be smart to freeze her out till she texts so that I dont look too needy?

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    Default Re: College guy in urgent need of help.

    Quote Originally Posted by PUAinTraining View Post
    Ok. normally, I freeze girls out in situations till they text me. We got spring break next week so we wont see each other for at least a week. Would it be smart to freeze her out till she texts so that I dont look too needy?
    I would freeze her out and maybe throw a text here and there during break. It is break after all. You should be showing DHV by having fun and telling her a lil about it. for example, "We just got poured shots from this girl from the second story, u have to see this to believe it!"
    your showing dhv by preselection, making her know that fun follows you. So I would freeze her out till then. After break you text her its time to study.
    My two cents.

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    Default Re: College guy in urgent need of help.

    Alright it didn't take freezing long cause about a day later she texted me at 1 am asking how my day was and then I woke up from texts from her. Here's the part I need help on. We were talking about cooking and she said she hates seafood, which I love seafood. I told her fried gator tastes like chicken and she told me to make it and prove her wrong (that all seafood is "yucky" and "fishy"). I said fine cookoff, my fried gator vs your ramen she agreed and then I said let's make it interesting and bet. She says whats the wager. That's where I'm stuck. I figured i'd say you win and you get the privilege of going on a date with me, but I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO SAY IF I WIN!?! PLEASE HELP ME, THIS IS URGENT!!!

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    Default Re: College guy in urgent need of help.

    "If you win you get to go on a date with me, if I win you have to stop texting me at 1am."

    I honestly have no idea if that's good or not lol

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    Default Re: College guy in urgent need of help.

    "If you win you get to come hang out with me when i am blahblahblah (DHV), if I win you got to stop texting at 1am" its push pull I like cliffascent but you got to put more dhv and plausible deniability.

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    Default Re: College guy in urgent need of help.

    I'll admit that dhv is definitely the weakest aspect of my arsenal. I just don't fully understand the concept. We were being extremely flirty last night through text and then she took the conversation into a deep direction and started talking about her ex. I didn't ask her any questions, I just made comments about her. For instance she told me that when they broke up she punched him in the face and i responded with "damn, i didn't expect fiestiness as part of your personality" and stuff like that. She opened up to me about this stuff while also working smilies in as she responded to my statements. She said that it was a two year relationship and i found out later that it ended a few months ago. My question to y'all is, how can I show her/convince her/get her to realize that she should give another guy (Me) a shot? I'm trying to overcome the "I just got out of a long relationship and it's too soon" scenario.


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