I'm not one of those chickenshits that asks girls via message, my favorite and most comfortable way is in person (i know weird, most people prefer on the phone) Anyway, I met this one chic at a party who seemed to dig me alot. Shes a perfect 10 too, I played it cool and she seemed to be asking for my attention. After some ignoring, right before I left I got her BBM (blackberry messenger pin) instead of the number, i guess its just more fun to say "let me scan your barcode" as opposed to whats your #.
Anyway i have her messenging contact and not her number, so should I ask her out via message, or should i ask her for her number via message and then call her? (that kinda sounds cheesy tho)