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    Default Already a popular guy but need help escalating

    Hi I go to a small school and I'm pretty popular there, but the girls I talk to just become good friends. I kino often and they respond positively so I know I still have time though. I'm new to pick up but have read some of the main books like The Game and the Mystery Method. I need help with starting because after I read these books I feel like I just learned terms like IOI DHV DLV AMOGing etc, but I don't know how/when/where to use it. And honestly I think Im more suited for David DeAngelo or Ross Jeffries than Mystery. I'm in spring break right now and have a week to get some ground knowledge and was hoping one of you at least could help me get started. Are there any books or routines that you recommend? If possible I'm looking something more step by step unlike The Game which just seemed like a bunch of information without much order.

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    Default Re: Already a popular guy but need help escalating

    I understand how you feel about the Mystery Method because I too had the same reaction. I have never been a fan of the terms and everything, I just use them here to make typing responses easier. I wouldn't get rid of it so quickly though. Don't get wrapped in the verbiage and think more of the ideas behind the terms. In regards to your situation, you need to work on creating more attraction and less comfort. While comfort is important, it is usually the deciding factor that puts you in the friend zone. Try David D's cocky funny attitude to try and give yourself that appearance as a confident guy whose approval they want. Hopefully you are not too far in the friend zone that this just pushes them away. Post back if you try any of these things and let me know how it worked. It's always nice to know when I can help out, and where my shortcomings are with my advice.

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    Default Re: Already a popular guy but need help escalating

    Hey thanks for your reply! Now I know the direction to head, and I've been interested in cocky & funny. I was already familiar with some CF lines and tried it on strangers and I could tell they were having fun. Thanks again you really helped and I don't mean to ask much but do you know any good places to learn more? Or is it more of a mindset that I'll learn to have?

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    Default Re: Already a popular guy but need help escalating

    Quote Originally Posted by Helpthenoob View Post
    Hey thanks for your reply! Now I know the direction to head, and I've been interested in cocky & funny. I was already familiar with some CF lines and tried it on strangers and I could tell they were having fun. Thanks again you really helped and I don't mean to ask much but do you know any good places to learn more? Or is it more of a mindset that I'll learn to have?
    There is alot of material out there, but in the end it comes down to how well you can apply to your own personality and make it feel natural. You might have to read/watch things multiple times before it really clicks in your own head. Trust me, once things click, and soon enough they will, it's a great feeling.

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    Default Re: Already a popular guy but need help escalating

    If you are already popular with girls then you are ahead of the pack and in your case by reading too much material and theory you might just be complicating things in your own head.

    Your issue is transitioning from playful vibe to sexual vibe...
    Kino is the area you need to work on along with a few conversational gambits.
    Please don't get caught up in the theory to much, go out a play in the field

    Check out puatraing media vid on you tube called body language, kino and sexual escalation. its very good

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    Default Re: Already a popular guy but need help escalating

    Quote Originally Posted by Centre View Post
    If you are already popular with girls then you are ahead of the pack and in your case by reading too much material and theory you might just be complicating things in your own head.

    Your issue is transitioning from playful vibe to sexual vibe...
    Kino is the area you need to work on along with a few conversational gambits.
    Please don't get caught up in the theory to much, go out a play in the field

    Check out puatraing media vid on you tube called body language, kino and sexual escalation. its very good
    Hey thanks for your input! I'll check out the video and work on the transition. And yes I think I was complicating things. I'll see how it goes!


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