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    Default Girl went cold, need assistance

    So, I talked to this girl that I met through a friend via facebook like a month or so ago, and we hit it off really well, we spent valentine's day together, and she was attracted to me and txted me alot after. I think my initial problem was not being a chase however, because oneitis set in, and she texted me asking "What are you doing?" and I said "talking to the highlight of my day", we still talked after that, but it seemed like the attraction just faded over time, because I texted her a while ago, inviting her to a party but she was busy, but said tommorow she was going somewhere, and I asked if it was an invitation, and she said I guess, so I wonder if its too late to rekindle the attraction, because i'm planning on not going tommorow, and doing a freeze out for a couple weeks then text her again without using AFC tactics, thoughts?

    Oh and another question- If you want a girl to be exclusive, when would be the best time to ask, because I dont want to ask too soon, but it seems like the attraction always fades before I ask, and how do you keep the attraction from fading?

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    Default Re: Girl went cold, need assistance

    Quote Originally Posted by pj72394 View Post
    So, I talked to this girl that I met through a friend via facebook like a month or so ago, and we hit it off really well, we spent valentine's day together, and she was attracted to me and txted me alot after. I think my initial problem was not being a chase however, because oneitis set in, and she texted me asking "What are you doing?" and I said "talking to the highlight of my day", we still talked after that, but it seemed like the attraction just faded over time, because I texted her a while ago, inviting her to a party but she was busy, but said tommorow she was going somewhere, and I asked if it was an invitation, and she said I guess, so I wonder if its too late to rekindle the attraction, because i'm planning on not going tommorow, and doing a freeze out for a couple weeks then text her again without using AFC tactics, thoughts?
    I'd stop saying cheesy sh1t like that. I mean it doesn't even sound like you've gotten physical with this girl yet and you're already making a big deal about her. Instead of cracking cheesey lines like that you should have responded with trying to set a meetup for later with her because it sounded like she may have been free then. Save the clever banter and always be trying to setup dates and escalate instead; That's far more interesting to a woman.
    Quote Originally Posted by pj72394 View Post
    Oh and another question- If you want a girl to be exclusive, when would be the best time to ask, because I dont want to ask too soon, but it seems like the attraction always fades before I ask, and how do you keep the attraction from fading?
    I personally wouldn't bring this up until after you've been having sex with a girl for awhile. She'll probably bring up your relationship status by then for clarity but maybe not. If it's really important to you, then I'd bring it up and see if you're both on the same page with your relationship desires. She'll either agree with you, or she won't.

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    Default Re: Girl went cold, need assistance

    Go out w/her. If you haven't kiss closed do it at the next meetup. Escalate to the kiss by touching her on the shoulder or arm. Don't grope her. Don't face her directly w/your body - keep it slightly turned. You can do this by keeping one foot back and pointed away from her.

    Do some homework. Find out what she likes from someone that knows her, if possible. If not, read her FB to get a feel for who she is.

    Tell her to put her cell on silent when she's w/you. If she ask why, tell her cus it's rude and distracting. If she doesn't comply end the date right there. Tell her to call you when she grows up.
    Carpe diem!


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