Hey everyone, I am new to this site and like everyone else looking for a bit of advice.
Anyways, I've been into this girl for a little over a year now and we talk daily. We started out as just friends and I would say through the year are "friendship" has progressed. We haven't had sex, the most we've done was just cuddle in bed.
Got up the courage about two weeks ago and told her how I felt and it went pretty good, she told me that she thought about dating me and we talked the rest of that night about it. We went to bed and the next morning I decided to ask her out over breakfast and she just started saying that she isn't right for me because she nags to much, and wasn't sure if I could handle it. She was acting totally different than the night before. Basically throwing out excuses.
She sent me a text later that day saying that she isn't ready for a relationship with me "right now" and she doesn't want to ruin our friendship.
What I am confused about is, why would she act like she is so into me, tell me stuff that she hasn't before, admit that she wants to date me. Then turn around almost like she is scared of something.
By the way, she is in the military and she did just deploy for 8 months. Maybe she'll be ready then, I don't know. What do you guys think?