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    WereWolfBoy is offline PUA in Training
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    Default How To Date A Lesbian

    So... until now I have only posted about one girl. However I am actually interested in two girls. The girl I never posted about is a lesbian... So I was wondering if I would want to make her my girlfriend... how should I do this?

    Some background info:
    She has a girlfriend and lives with her. The girl is kinda my boss, only for a short while though. I guess she likes me as a colleague.

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    Default Re: How To Date A Lesbian

    If she is a real Lesbian she will not be attracted to you no matter what you do.

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    Default Re: How To Date A Lesbian

    Um I guess if you want to go for lesbians and try to 'make the switch' that's your call man haa. Or is she bi?

    Anyways maybe ask them both out as friends, get into a deep convo and try to dhv with some social proof. See what kinda info. you can pull out of them, then if it seems like something's a brewin go for it- but one is your boss might wanna be careful there right?

    I met a lesbian last summer that was frustrated with her relationship, and pretty sure she had a thing for me- flirting, she sends me msg's on fb, etc. I'm not really going for her but just sayin, I guess it can happen. Matter of fact not going for her probably makes her like me more.. ah.. that's it, play cool but don't show interest right away, until you get to that point.

    Cheers!

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    Default Re: How To Date A Lesbian

    Quote Originally Posted by WereWolfBoy View Post
    ... if I would want to make her my girlfriend... how should I do this?
    Cut off your penis.


    If you're willing to invest some time, most of the homosexual people I have known, male and female, have dipped into the straight pond for a swim, occassionally.

    I can hypothesize the psychology behind it, but it is irrelevant to the thread.

    I have been with one lesbian. In no way was it anything more than physical pleasure, for her. She wanted to be with a woman before and she went back to a woman after.

    Alfred Kinsey suggested very few people are completely straight or completely homosexual. The tendancy, especially, among males, is to be homophobic and demeaning when it comes to any feelings they feel toward other men (in curent American culture). Most people sit in the "bi-sexual" category.

    Out of the homosexual community, the vast majority have sexual and romantic experiences with both genders.

    If she is a lesbian, you have a shot at a physical encounter, but she doesn't want to be with a man any more than you do, for a romantic relationship (I presume you are more straight than homosexual).
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: How To Date A Lesbian

    @wolfboy: I am in a very similar situation! Actually slept with my target lesbian who still gives me IOI's and wants to hang out but refuses anything more than friends.

    @nik: Very good advice, thank you.


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