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    FPierce is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Hooking Back Up with Online Flake

    Real quick: Dated a girl a few times back in Nov.. I had an family emergency out of state and was gone a few weeks. I thought I texted her when I returned (I mean, I'm like 99.9% sure), but no response. I figured she figured I was full of sh1t about out of town thing.

    Anyway, she checked me out online; I hit her back up and she commented that she was "bummed" that I never called her back when I came back to town.

    She's a solid 8 and I wouldn't mind jumping back in. So dilemma: Do I say something like, oh crap, I thought I texted you? Or is that too AFC? And, if I wanna hook back up, but not look like I'm chasing her, how should I roll that? I guess I'm looking for how to play it cool without coming off needy or a d1ck for not owning up to not texting her (though I know I did...!)

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    Default Re: Hooking Back Up with Online Flake

    I would hit on it once, something simple: "I did girl, what happened?", this way you're touching that it's her fault but not being mean or whiney about it. Regardless of her response to that, you can come back along the lines of
    "well why don't we fix that anyway?"

    Otherwise resume normal conversation, just don't draw out an explanation of when you text her and all, the more you explain it, the needier it is
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