Hi, as im new I apologise for any wrong placement of PUA lingo.
Let me say first im a first year university student working part time of a weekend.
First of all, ive known this girl from work+uni (shes 2nd year) for about 6 months, and got to know her from work quite well, to the point where I pick her up once a week to go to work. I feel we always have lots to talk when we see each other and just generally get on well. But I have seen her on nights out and we've spoken then aswell, she does have a BF but its kind of like a half-hearted relationship while at uni I guess seen as shes a commitment-phobe, I feel as if im getting mixed signals you know, I don't know how to CALIBRATE, we both have bbm and talk on there frequently aswell and we do kinda flirt to a certain extent (like i'll crack out a thats what she said joke or something) but I don't know how to show my interest a bit more and advance sexually a bit more. Ive been invited to her house after work tommorow so we can have a chinese and 'chill', I responded something like better get a bottle of wine aswell, which she said yeahh I should do.
I just don't quite know what to make of the situation I don't think im in the friend zone.
I just wanted another persons perspective of the situation, and maybe help me proceed in some form?
If you feel ive not been specific enough on anything just say