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    Default need an outside opinion from a PUA!

    OR someone with relationship experience!

    This community is awesome, not only for getting laid but generally in life.

    I have had this problem on my mind, and it could be im over THINKING it, so i have no other option but to ask here!

    My GF Jen was txting her friend who is a girl, and the convo went something like this

    (chad was a guy my gf's friend used to slam, and currently has a BF)

    (Jason was a guy my girlfriend liked, and they hooked up, and he burned her) (PRIOR TO ME DATING HER LMAO)

    Friend: I miss chad
    Jen: aww its okay, i dream of jason sometimes
    Friend: Really?
    Jen: Yeah, that were together, its unfinished business i guess lol
    Friend: Yeah



    So my girlfriend dreams of another dude she had relations with which is totally cool, Id be nuts to say i havent dreamed of another girl, but the unfinished business comment really got to me! I asked her about it and she said that it was in regard to what her friend was going through and wanted to make her feel better. Am i being a farking pussy or is my girlfriend not so girlfriend worthy? PLZ, need honest opinions on this one

    THX GUYS

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    Default Re: need an outside opinion from a PUA!

    I think you said it all when you conceded that you dream of other girls. Both you and your GF have pasts with other people, those pasts don't just go away because you're together now. If this guy Jason was somebody important to her at one time it's not so unusual that she might have a dream about him once in a while or whatever. It's more important to pay attention to her current behaviors. If she seems distant, or she starts talking to Jason again, then you need to open a conversation about it. But from what you described above I don't think there's any reason to be paranoid.

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    Default Re: need an outside opinion from a PUA!

    Did you dig through her text? Uncool. But anyway, I don't play that shit! I have exes I think about and I'm sure my girlfriends do too, but I never let them know about it so they better never let me know either. I would drop her and leave. She would learn to never talk about her exes again in the future because it will take another relationship from her and she'll have a new ex to talk about. But then again, you shouldn't look through ppl's texts...

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    Default Re: need an outside opinion from a PUA!

    Ditto on not looking at your lover's txt, email, etc. Privacy is important. Besides, it'll make you crazy jealous cus you'll always be suspicious.

    If you love her and can be patient, tell her to take care of the unfinished business then come back to you and give you 100%. If she stays, then move on and stop reading her txt.

    If she leaves, put yourself back on the market and meet other women. If she comes back and you still want her, go for it. If you find someone else, then she's SOL.

    BTW, unless she freely showed you her txt, your behavior is a sign of insecurity that can lead to an abusive relationship. Read up on the Wheel of Abuse.


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