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    Default Need help friends have been ditching me but not in the normal way

    I live with my two roommates, lets call them Steve, and Phil. I've known these guys since high school. After high school I began to change, go out, and start having fun by going to clubs with groups of people. Well I wanted them to join me so I kept trying to get them to go out but they would always insist they didn't want to. Now some time has passed, and I've found myself staying inside more, and doing other things, and I would hang out with them since we were roomates. Well about 3 months ago they starting leaving and coming back late on and off and never telling me anything let alone talk to me. I confronted them once, and they said they don't need to tell me what they do, so I agreed, and ignored it. It has really gotten to me though now that I found out that they have been going to clubs, and hanging out with groups of people, but this time they refuse to bring me out with them, not so much an invite, and the worst part about it is they come back and avoid me. What happened to my friends? I tried to get them to join me, and this is what they do, I don't know if I should even consider us friends anymore or what to do, someone please give me some advice

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    Default Re: Need help friends have been ditching me but not in the normal way

    Confront them again ask them what's changed. You could have pissed them and not even realized it if they're true bros they'll get it off their shoulders and move on, if not forget them. Just like the saying with goes with girls there's more fish in the sea. These guys seem hypocritical getting mad cause you have a night life and they didn't and when you try to stay in with them they go out. Doesn't seem like good friends to me. Hang out with your other friends for awhile and go have fun.

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    Default Re: Need help friends have been ditching me but not in the normal way

    They don't sound like very good friends but if you live with them it's really convenient if you at least get along with them. Sit down with them, be relaxed and just ask them what's going on.

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    Default Re: Need help friends have been ditching me but not in the normal way

    Seems you've done something that pissed them off badly and you didn't even know. OR, they THINK you did something that you didn't do. Bros don't just change like that for no reason. Sound like girl's PMS... Talk it out like men. If it doesn't work, then move out and get new friends and wingmen.

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    Default Re: Need help friends have been ditching me but not in the normal way

    Thanks everyone for the replies. This is not the first time so I decided to go out with my club friends, and my club wingmen, and enjoy the night life once again. Because of this it seems that I've further pushed myself away from my high school friends, and I won't say I regret it. It is because these were my closest bros that I wanted to keep them but things don't last forever, and if they want to completely ditch me, and not even talk to me anymore then it's fine


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