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    TheFavor87 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default need help with fallow up game after a blind date

    Hey, so one of my friends invited me to her sorority semi formal where they pair up their sisters who do not have dates with guys they know. That is why it was kind of a blind date. I was kind of nervous the whole time but managed to keep it together and not follower her around the whole night. When we were introduced we talked for a few minutes then she got dragged way by some friends. So I went and talked to some other friends I knew there. After a little while I went and found her again and we talked some more. This pattern went on for a little while then she grabbed me by the hand and we danced for a little while. There rest of the party went smoothly. We left separately but I got her number and she invited me to an after party. She was a new sister so she could not stay there long. My one friend who is really good with girls said she seemed really into me.

    Sorry if that was too much unnecessary information. My question is how should I fallow this up to get another date with her?

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    Default Re: need help with fallow up game after a blind date

    The fact that she gave you her number and invited you to the after party are good signs that she's into you. I would text her to say you had a good time. Or just call and ask her to hang out again. Try to make plans for it to just be the two of you this time. If she seems uncomfortable with hanging out one-on-one that might be a sign she's not interested in you as more than a friend.

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    TheFavor87 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: need help with fallow up game after a blind date

    Thanks the the advice, this was Saturday night, is there a certain time frame I should worry about contacting her? And do you have any suggests on good places and or activities do invite her too? Was thinking of inviting her to a friends for a backyard fire but that would be more then just the two of us.

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    Kit J is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: need help with fallow up game after a blind date

    I would say contact her mid-week to set something up for this weekend. Inviting her to your friend's BBQ is totally fine for a second meeting. Is there a chance you could get some alone time with her after the BBQ? If not, definitely try for a more traditional "date" for your third meeting. I'm just thinking you want to send her the message that you're interested in her as more than just a "hang out buddy."


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