Hi, I'm a soph in college, not a lot of experience with girls. I have some personal issues I've been working through, and as I've worked through them I've been interacting with more girls.
There's this one girl who is in 2 of my classes. She has a boyfriend. I've been taking things pretty casually with her, just trying to keep my energy up and positive, joke with her, tease her, etc. My main worry is that I'm headed for the friend zone.
So today we're on our way walking to our next class together. Half-way there she pulls out her phone, she has a missed call from her BF so she calls him right then and there while walking with me. I'm like, woh, seriously? I feel like a chump for a sec then I realize I'm gonna just bust her balls hard for it. She finally hangs up and I'm like "is that your dad or something?" Cus she was talking about grades and sh1t. Then she's like "haha nah it was my BF, he wouldn't stop talking". I playfully push her away a bit and say "yeah you're supposed to be talking to me". Probably coulda busted her harder for being so rude but I at least called her out on it.
She's like ya sorry I felt bad. She starts explaining that he's the jealous type, she woulda told him she was walking with her friend but then he'd start asking questions. So I wonder if he's actually the jealous type or if she's just worried that he actually has something to be jealous about - because this girl is into me and sees me as a potential lay. She also explains that he will be moving north in 4 weeks, hmm... Good information for me to know. Maybe she told me that for a reason.
So my questions here - was this is a sh1t test, or am I possibly friendzoned with this chick? I think it was the former, even if it wasn't exactly deliberate on her part. Secondly, did I handle it alright? I shoulda busted her balls harder but at least I called her out on it. And the jealous comment - if she saw me as innocuous would she even have brought that up?