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    Default I don't want to hurt you.

    I am dating 4 women. Although one is my favorite and a high potential for a LTR, I am still shopping. Today, one of the 4 women told me that she wants us to be BF/GF and monogamous - I've only known her for one month. And, two days ago, another woman gave me all the signals to bed her NOW! I left her with a good night kiss - this was our first date.

    The one I really want to develop a LTR with calls me every morning, txts me a "Hi " in the middle of the day and late at nigth to talk and say goodnight. On our first meeting we talked for hours, past her bed time she said. She ended our first conversation by telling me that she confided more info about herself to me than anyone else she knows. She said she felt as though she has known me her whole life. I haven't been able to make an official first date due to my schedual, but she said she understood and agreed to spend a whole day w/me next week.

    Here is my problem: How do I let the other women down w/o hurting them once I get the one I want to commit to a LTR?

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    Default Re: I don't want to hurt you.

    You can't get out of this without hurting anyone. Anytime two people have inequality in the amount they care for each other, one of those people is most likely going to end up getting hurt. But, it's okay, life goes on. People are resilient. One thing: I would recommend you break things off NOW with the girl who asked you to be her BF since you have no intention of getting more serious with her. It will only hurt her more later if you continue to date her and then break it off once you're ready to settle down with the other chick.

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    Default Re: I don't want to hurt you.

    Thanks. I was thinking along the same line as you, guess I was trying to avoid the inevitable. Plus, I needed the encuragement to do the right thing.


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