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    Slarfy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Angry Girl asks me to hang out via text then ignores my response?!?!?

    Met HB9 at frat party where I had massive social proof and DHV's going for me. Talked to her for like a half hour, she shows me many IOI's and hangs around me even when I engage other sets and stop talking to her. She leaves to go to the bars because her friends are leaving and I grab her number.

    The next day I text her and get her emotions going. I said something like, "Hey this is xxx from xxx. [PLAYFUL NEG]" Texted her briefly about the previous night while teasing her, etc. Told her to come grab food with me, she couldn't come. Told me she was stopping by the same dorm as me, (hinting she wanted to hang) so I told her to stop by. Meanwhile, my friends drag me out of the room for dinner while she is coming by. Like an idiot, I left with them assuming she'd still be around for me to see her after I eat.. which she wasn't.

    When she stopped by my door and I wasn't there she texted me and said "Sketchy just knocked on your door"

    I replied: "Ha eating now sorry. My friends dragged me out"

    Continued texting her, told her I had to go.

    Next day I text her and playfully neg the sh*t out of her (can't forget that she's a HB9) with some combined light IOI's. From here I basically get her to the point where she tells me to stop by and see her. And of course with my luck I was unable to meet up at the time. Here's where the problem occurs. It makes absolutely no sense to me...

    The convo ended like this.

    Her- "Lmao stop by xxxx now"

    Me- "I can't lol.. Meet me on Wednesday for lunch."

    No response. I have absolutely no clue what to do from here, and I'm kinda confused... Can't rationalize that I did anything wrong...??? But anyway some help would be appreciated.. Thanks.
    Last edited by Slarfy; 03-27-2012 at 10:01 PM.

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    Kit J is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl asks me to hang out via text then ignores my response?!?!?

    How long has it been since you sent the last text? In general, my advice would be to wait a day or two and then text, "So, are we on for lunch Wednesday?" If she ignores again, it's time to move on.

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    SonnyCurtis is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Girl asks me to hang out via text then ignores my response?!?!?

    She wanted to see you but you made yourself unavailable twice. Not good. If a chick did this to you you'd call her a flake. Try again in a couple of days, this time be available.

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    Default Re: Girl asks me to hang out via text then ignores my response?!?!?

    Agree with the top 2 guys. You ticked her off by flaking twice so she thinks you're running game on her. Not texting you back for revenge. Take Kit's suggestion.

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    Default Re: Girl asks me to hang out via text then ignores my response?!?!?

    At this point this girl's probably worried that you're just a tease via text and are fucking with her with no intention to meet up. Figure out when you've got some free time soon for when you could meet up with her and make this shit happen.

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    Slarfy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl asks me to hang out via text then ignores my response?!?!?

    Quote Originally Posted by don pimpin sheezy View Post
    At this point this girl's probably worried that you're just a tease via text and are farking with her with no intention to meet up. Figure out when you've got some free time soon for when you could meet up with her and make this sh1t happen.
    I think you're right. She is clearly a girl who has no need to make me a priority at this point, especially since I haven't gotten her to invest at all. I basically texted her and told her that I don't like playing games and that I would like to hangout, to which she agreed.

    I kinda feel like I'm setting myself up to be a beta though the way i'm forcing things, which means I really have to nail it when we chill. But oh well, this one has already been a good learning experience nonetheless


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