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    Default Need Help with a Girl in my College and some guides

    Hey Guys,
    I have this girl who I like and would like to have her as my girlfriend for a long term relationship. The thing is we are just kind of formal friends and whenever we meet each other we just say hi and how r u? Thats all till now but recently since like 2-3 weeks she is completely ignoring me..not even saying hi. I dont know what made her do that. The only reason I am having a doubt what made her do that is because of my friend. I told her that I like this girl and I am very shy of girls and can you please set me up with her. I introduced my friend to her and the second day, my friend said to her that she can try to hook her up with some guy and she said my name by mistake. Since that time she is completely ignoring me. When my friend told her that, I went to her in the evening and told her that my friend told me that she is trying to hook you up to me and gave a kind of shocked and disgusting expression (as if I am not interested in her) on that and ended up saying that she likes to joke like that. She does this kind of jokes more often and she tried to hook up a guy with me which was obviously a lie to make it seem as if it was really a joke. I dont know if this part made it get screwed up.

    I would like to know how can I proceed ahead with this situation and what to do next? I would to like to make this situation back to normal the way it was.

    The other thing is I seriously wanted to know learn pickup using the guides by professional pick ups and not pick ups in clubs or bars but any girl on the street that I like to pick up. I was considering to buy the guide by David Wygant and wanted to know some opinions if its a good guide to invest on?

    Please help me out of this situation and plus I am really a shy guy. So a simple solution which I dont mind practising in front of the mirror and then applying it and something which I can do easily without getting scared.

    Best Regards

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    Default Re: Need Help with a Girl in my College and some guides

    So this was one of those situations where the conversation unfolded like your mouth was falling down the stairs, huh? OK, so you need to get that shyness worked out before approaching her again because if you do it in your current state, no matter how well you planned it, you would probably trip up again and further cockblock yourself. Solution: Do the challenge where you go to a bar and make an ass out of yourself on purpose. Make random conversation with random girls. And don't always be wasted when you do it. When you get rid of your nervousness, then go get that girl again, but in the process, you may meet someone better!

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    Default Re: Need Help with a Girl in my College and some guides

    Quote Originally Posted by thisisSPARTAAAA View Post
    So this was one of those situations where the conversation unfolded like your mouth was falling down the stairs, huh?
    Lol, I did not understand your point here.

    Quote Originally Posted by thisisSPARTAAAA View Post
    Solution: Do the challenge where you go to a bar and make an ass out of yourself on purpose. Make random conversation with random girls. And don't always be wasted when you do it. When you get rid of your nervousness, then go get that girl again, but in the process, you may meet someone better!


    A better solution than this as my parents dont allow me to go to bars....Its not about the shyness actually..I can get rid of that by practising a lot with girls on the street but I really suck with girls. I have no social life, so I want to change my life and become more sociable, in other words, not even a single friend . Thats the reason I was checking out guides and I found David Wygant guide. Thats why asked the opinion whether I should buy his stuff or not?

    I dont want too many friends. I just want her in my life thats all. May be I could meet someone better agreed while I learn and practice.

    So please suggest me if I should David Wygant guides.

    Regards

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    Default Re: Need Help with a Girl in my College and some guides

    How old are you? I mean, there are tons of ways to make friends. I play in a volleyball league and meet people there. I go to bars and meet people there. You can't just open up in the middle of the street necessarily and make friends that way. It happens, but it's tough.

    I agree with Sparta... you need to get rid of your initial shyness. YOu say you can work on it, which is great and all, but from the way you are writing I can automatically tell you exhibit shyness outwardly. No offense meant and I am only giving my honest opinion. Girls smell shyness and non-confidence a mile away. Girls also sense confidence like a shark and a pool of blood. I can walk into a bar and have girls turn their way and look at me because I exhibit confidence. Not because I am cocky or full of it. But because no matter what, I am having fun, I am sociable, and I like to smile and just enjoy what I am doing and who I am.

    I know you aren't in a bar setting, but this happens wherever you go. You need to work on your inner game before you can patch up anything. Like Sparta said, if you walk up to her and you just exhibit your mouth open and not exhibit confidence, she is going to just ignore you. Even if you want her as a friend (and in my advice, why do you want a girl as a friend without anything else more? Don't let her place you into a friend zone... Make her a potential), you still need to play it cool and make her yearn for YOUR approval.

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    Default Re: Need Help with a Girl in my College and some guides

    danube, you got the wrong attitude completely. You say you don't want a lot of friends; you just want her in your life? From this sentence I can tell you're fighting way to many weight-ranks higher than you. And you don't have a single friend? You won't get this chick the way you are; it's impossible. No, you need to give this chick up and go for self-improvement. You probably need to do a few things for a whole year or 2 before you can revisit this girl. 1. go to the gym. Build muscle, lose fat, whatever you gotta do. 2. make tons of friends. Don't even think about girls. Just hang out. 3. Dress nicely. Wal-mart clothes won't do. Wear $45-70 shirts and stuff like that. 4. Talk to girls and get rid of your shyness. If you want to skip these steps and get the girl, that's like saying, "I don't wanna buy the ammunition or the guns. I wanna skip building the army and just win the war." You can't. This self-improvement will equip you for getting girls for the rest of your life. And your mouth falling down the stairs refers to you saying 1 thing wrong and that causes you to say something else wrong, and before you know it, the whole conversation was about saying things you shouldn't.

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    Default Re: Need Help with a Girl in my College and some guides

    Quote Originally Posted by thisisSPARTAAAA View Post
    If you want to skip these steps and get the girl, that's like saying, "I don't wanna buy the ammunition or the guns. I wanna skip building the army and just win the war." You can't. .
    Love that quote. Kudos and much agreed. So very true.
    Develop inner game and strength.
    You can't expect to go out with her or even be her friend if you have NOTHING to offer to her other than, hey i am a nice guy and i can be nice. Girls dont just want a nice guy. They want mystery, excitement, uncertainty, and enchantment. All you are offering to her is a "hi, how are you?"... The dunkin donuts guy can offer her the same thing. It isn't the matter of reading 1 book and knowing what to do. You have to practice practice practice. It won't take a week to develop skill. It won't take a month. It takes a lot of time. I still am learning, every single day I am learning something new and developing myself.

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    Default Re: Need Help with a Girl in my College and some guides

    In your situation Danube I would say that the best thing you can start doing to get rid of your shyness is to stop playing by the rules, I refer here to a scene in a movie men in black. Will Smith pulls a huge ass desk over to his seat and makes such a scene and sooo much noise in an environment he is expected to "Play by the rules" and everyone looks as him, the scene is really odd because all the guys look at him in disgust like he cares nothing for the rules but the HB in the other seat smiles at him and looks like she is impressed. This is exactly true in real life!

    I do shit like this all the time, I have rearranged a bar before on grounds of feng shui every HB in the place was looking at me drag a huge leather sofa 180 degrees in a crowded bar, while all the guys were looking at me like I was a murderer. I got 2 numbers that night and had a HB9 calling me her feng shui adviser, 2 dates later I slept with her just for dragging a couch to get attention and show that I am the master of my surroundings! Start rearranging your world around you man, break the rules, this just comes across to chicks that your a badass and they love that!

    Only one piece of advice with this dude, don't start just moving everything and anything, this is metaphorical as well as physical, simply moving something can be bouncing a chick from one bar to another, I don't want you to become a removal guy, unless you do it so well that it always gets you laid! But hey try it out man!

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