Thanks so much guys you really are proving to be a great help!!
So tonight I'm going to talk to her again, tell her i was really busy at work and could not talk much. THen i will start to neg her and tease her but i think she is going to be cold and distant. Let me finish painting this picture.
When she left me that night i got really mad, and i told her and her friends that she used me and that I could never feel like I could trust her again. So i put quite a negative vibe on her. She wants to make sure all her friends know that she didn't use me.
When she was with me, she sent me a message saying how much she really liked me but how i needed to understand how she felt. So she always puts her cards on the table and was honest with me she hid no feeling from me.
I didn't speak to her for 4 days today being the 4th.
Should I ask her how she feels now? Or avoid that as she is confused and still misses her X. Should I try and tell her to take it slow?
Should I tell her that I like her? Or should I show it trough message. What feeling should I show her. And what do i do if she is barely responding or stops responding all together. Should i bring up the conversation we had where i said she used me, and explain to her that I understood and respected her actions,honesty and it was best at the time.
Or should I go the other way get her friend to tell her, and to explain to her that he really respects you and that he likes you etc? and that she should speak to me and take it really slowly?
Remember her friends absolutely adore me, I call them my girls, and they got really over protective of me when i starting seeing her and were mad as hell when she broke up with me.
I reallyyyy appreciate your time guys for helping me, I honestly do, I hope i can return the favour ( i doubt it) one day.