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    Default Re: She left me for her x, but changed her mind.

    Thanks so much guys you really are proving to be a great help!!

    So tonight I'm going to talk to her again, tell her i was really busy at work and could not talk much. THen i will start to neg her and tease her but i think she is going to be cold and distant. Let me finish painting this picture.

    When she left me that night i got really mad, and i told her and her friends that she used me and that I could never feel like I could trust her again. So i put quite a negative vibe on her. She wants to make sure all her friends know that she didn't use me.

    When she was with me, she sent me a message saying how much she really liked me but how i needed to understand how she felt. So she always puts her cards on the table and was honest with me she hid no feeling from me.

    I didn't speak to her for 4 days today being the 4th.

    Should I ask her how she feels now? Or avoid that as she is confused and still misses her X. Should I try and tell her to take it slow?

    Should I tell her that I like her? Or should I show it trough message. What feeling should I show her. And what do i do if she is barely responding or stops responding all together. Should i bring up the conversation we had where i said she used me, and explain to her that I understood and respected her actions,honesty and it was best at the time.

    Or should I go the other way get her friend to tell her, and to explain to her that he really respects you and that he likes you etc? and that she should speak to me and take it really slowly?


    Remember her friends absolutely adore me, I call them my girls, and they got really over protective of me when i starting seeing her and were mad as hell when she broke up with me.

    I reallyyyy appreciate your time guys for helping me, I honestly do, I hope i can return the favour ( i doubt it) one day.
    Last edited by xcalibar; 03-29-2012 at 02:40 PM.

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    Default Re: She left me for her x, but changed her mind.

    One more thing, she used to love to tease me and get teased on messages, i used to tease her like i didn't want her around and she used to absolutely love it... it was like a challenger to her. she lived on it i felt.

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    Default Re: She left me for her x, but changed her mind.

    Whoa dude! The plot thickens! This all seems so crazy dude, do you really need this crap? Like it's getting heavy now, do you just want laid from this girl or to make her a girlfriend?
    We are limited only by our creativity.

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    Default Re: She left me for her x, but changed her mind.

    I want her to be my girlfriend, maybe more.Hence why Im giving this importance.. I can get a shag, i dont need her.

    Hence why im going a bit nuts not to lose this girl.

    So moving on, I texted her tonight and told her to call me if she is awake. she sent back " in a minute " and called me. I told her that her friends told me that she thought I hated her, and I explained this is not the case. She said my words in the messages after the breakup were quite harsh and she was really upset and crying.

    She explained the reasons why she didn't get back with her x, none of them related to me. I also asked her where we stand and she said "dont ask me that right now, i cannot handle these questions. Were nothing right now" . We spent 2 hours talking till 3.00 AM (she has to be up at 6). And even moved from her bed to her car to speak to me as not to wake up her parents (shes still 20).

    She laughed a lot and was happy to hear my voice, as i was hers. Things went really smoothly. Once we cut she sent me a text saying "Thank you for calling". And I sent back "Im so patient with you :P", followed by "your welcome gorgeous " and she said "mmm "
    Last edited by xcalibar; 03-29-2012 at 08:27 PM.

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    Default Re: She left me for her x, but changed her mind.

    Your starting to crack it my boy! That little text at the end was nice! Real PUA material!

    However your goals and her's are wildly different right now, She is just out a relationship, she is really emotional and quite sporadic. The other thing is that she is sad and lonely, some of these are the ideal settings for rebound game and swooping in to clean up but this all comes with baggage. She is going to need you to stay as a sexual figure in her life just now until you build her back up to be stable enough to be your girlfriend, she just isn't in the right place by the sounds of things to form a healthy relationship and that's exactly what you want.

    Here's what I would do - I would use my PUA skills to turn her into a confident, strong and happy person by spending time with me, get her addicted to my energy and the way I make her feel! Then when I have sex with her I would pull out absolutely all the stops to make her sexually addicted to me too, like honestly go to town on this girl for hours multiple orgasms and take at least 3 hours just to destroy her body!

    I would constantly pull my grade "A++" game on her, taking her out to do exciting things, making personal jokes between each other and generally forming our own exclusive little club that makes her happy to be in. You need to be changing this girls life with your game bro, this is what she needs so she can once again be GF material. So be smart, be positive, and be confident.

    I like you man and you seem like a straight guy not out to break this girls heart like so many "PUA wannabe's" out there.

    You now need to look at your messages on here from the beginning of this thread and learn from your mistakes retrospectively. You pulled through this quite well but in future there is no need for you to get in this mess with HB's either for dates or girlfriends.

    So don't worry I think you have this in the bag but the key is being positive and making a positive impact in her life, this will make her think you are the key to her emotional problems and thus get her addicted to you as she believes you are the cure.

    You can make this chick crave you in the same way people turn to comfort eating, it's all psychology and the messages you send.

    Hope this helps man

    ~Astro
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    Default Re: She left me for her x, but changed her mind.

    Hey,

    And thank you again for your response. Right now she is not with me, she meant we are nothing right now because she wants to be free. I also know from her friends that she likes another guy, and she has initiated contact in the form of a small get together of old friends.
    This happened at the time we were not speaking so probably since i was out of the picture and she thought i was so angry at her she started actively seeking out attention.

    Moving on to another point. She told me she was going out tonight to drink, now I never told her my plans. I know she has a birthday party at a club, and she is going to another club after. Now another group of friends have a bar hopping session, followed by hitting the clubs. Should I just go out and not tell her, she will probably bump into me. Or should I drag her friends that told her are not going out, but if I do i know they will come with me (im mad fun).

    The bump into me part is risky as I never know if I will bump into her in that eve. She has never had a night out with me, so if i do bump into her im wondering, I should use the push pull technique and make her have madd fun whilst teasing her a little bit.Neg her as much as possible. I will try and bag her that night. What do you think. Sorry for yet another post, but i cannot think for myself right now.. dont ask me why, she has really thrown me off my game.

    Also Should I text her today, or just let her find out im going out from her friends.. I cannot undertand why I cant answer these questions for myself. lol.

    Also she wants to drink heavy that night, should I comply?

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    Default Re: She left me for her x, but changed her mind.

    Dude just go out and don't tell her, get your ass out tonight, have a few drinks to loosen your anxiety BUT don't get drunk! Getting too drunk will screw up your whole game here, I think you might end up being an emotional wreck!

    At this point you will probably bump into her and when you do I would treat her like you have never met her before! Just go from scratch like you were gaming a girl you just met in a club. So yes build sexual tension, use push pull scenarios, neg her, isolate her when the time is right and kiss close her, then if you can f-close her later that night then go ahead!

    Your over thinking all of this and it's stressing you out, that's why you can't think or answer your own questions.

    Stop dude! Stop worrying about her! The worst that can happen is you don't get her and then some other HB comes along and by that time you have learned from your mistakes and you nail it perfectly this time!

    Chill the fuck out, Be alpha and stay focused, don't stick to a routine tonight when you go out, instead just use everything you have in a little whirlwind of awesomeness and make the group come alive! Be a people person all night and get the group really high on your energy! DHV the shit out of her and then you can make your moves as I said above!

    So in short

    1. Go out tonight and don't say anything to her until you bump into her in the club or bar.

    2. Until you meet her be the life of the group! High energy all night get the DHV cycle up and make sure everyone knows that your the boss!

    3. Drink but don't get drunk! You need to be in control bu a little social lubricant will help your nerves

    4. When she appears be totally cool, don't run up to her, try to notice her before she notices you and then pretend you didn't know she was there for a little while, with a little luck she will approach you first!

    5. When she appears start building sexual tension, use push pull scenarios and play games with her, neg her and get the KINO flowing, get as much sexual pressure built between you as possible and then isolate her when the time is right and kiss close her.

    6. If you time it right then if you can f-close her later that night then go ahead!

    7. When the night is over, go back to the method I told you about above your last post and get her addicted to you

    Simple huh!?

    Keep us posted man

    ~Astro
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    Default Re: She left me for her x, but changed her mind.

    oki,

    get out of the way I got this one :P

    Thank god it summer clothes and bikini Lines over here. I would hate to be passing trough this in winter.

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    Default Re: She left me for her x, but changed her mind.

    So the story continues and I think I've just been friend zoned im not sure. I didn't see her last night she knew I was out she didn't know where but, this morning she called pretending she didn't know I was out.

    Moving on we start texting and I pull all the stops everything was going perfectly and then she friend zoned me

    I told her a joke between us of breaking stuff, and she said.

    "they said something bad about you and I always stick up for my friends"

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    Default Re: She left me for her x, but changed her mind.

    This is goofy man haha!

    Yeah she stick's up for her friends and yeah you might be having bad stuff said about you, but just respond by saying that "yeah, well they might be right about me being a bad guy... I suggest you stay away from me I'm pure evil! I never leave the toilet seat down and I always take all the blankets but besides that I'm pretty perfect"

    Just turn it to your advantage.

    I can actually argue my way into bed with a girl.
    I have done it a few times just to prove a point, I picked up a girl by telling her that her friends will hate me because she will never see them after we start dating, so we argued about the fact if she would date me or not, I called her names and made fun of her for 20 mins and then took her home and hooked up at the end of the night, I did this by challenging her to prove me wrong then we swapped numbers, all night in the club I texted her and gamed the fuck out of her by negging and escalating then 1hr before the end of the club I text her saying so are you ready to kiss me now? When I sent the text I made sure I was in line of sight, then I got no reply, she glanced over and smiled and I got the fuck up, walked over and kissed her while she was talking with her friend.

    I believe she is testing you man, don't fail.

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