I am new to this forum and hope I can prove to be an assistance to others. I am going to keep my story as short as possible.
I met a girl 3 months ago who had a boyfriend, she i part of my "girl group" now around 3 weeks ago she broke up with her boyfriend. 5 days after we had out first date. Things went pretty well and pretty fast (rebound) she said how much she really liked me but asked to go slow as possible as she had just gotten out of a relationship. I understood and we tried to go slowly.
Last sunday morning after sleeping at my house, she woke up and she told me that she could do this anymore as she was still thinking about her boyfriend and could not be with me in this way. Later on in the day the other girls tell me she wants to get back with her X.
The day before yesterday I found out from her friends that she decided not to get back And that she still thinks we really clicked and really likes me but is scared to speak to me because of rejection.
Moving on, I organised a picnic for 40 people this saturday on the beach. I invited her on the event on Facebook (she was shocked). I heard from her friends she was scared of coming to it because she thought i might be cold. (please note her entire group will be there). She posted on the wall that she has lots of work and could not make it ( BS). Should i contact her in a friendly manner and tell her to stop being such a nerd, keep the conversation brief and leave or should i just continue not keeping in contact with her. we haven't spoke since what happened.
SORRY FOR THE LONG POST. And thanks for the help. :
Please note i had got with this girl at the begging by not playing and games with her as i normally would she was very honest at all times regardless how much it would affect our relationship.