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    pj72394 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to stave off AFCness

    I'm in high school by the way, anyway.

    So I was semi-chasing this girl for a month or two. I couldn't see her much, as she was busy with alot of things, esp church related, and even tho the attraction was high, I think this, and maybe me texting a bit too often killed it, and now she's dating someone at her church. I of course go along with my life like everything is fine (esp showing it on facebook), but it hit me like a brick when I found out.

    Sometimes I want to just text her and tell her how I feel, but I know better than anyone what being an AFC does to any spark of attraction, especially if I want to hook up with her later. How can I stave off these AFC feelings so I don't completely screw myself up, or do I need to get some things off my chest?

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    xcalibar is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: How to stave off AFCness

    Hi,

    Dude, she just got into a relationship and is in her honeymoon period. You dont want to mess with that..

    You need to move on, find another girl you like and start speaking to her, you will see that quickly your feeling for that old girl will die. In the future you can go for her again. JUST GET LAID.

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    Default Re: How to stave off AFCness

    Telling her your feelings only works in movies. It won't make a bit of a difference now.
    Best advice... listen to a few sad love songs, get out your emotions, listen to some songs about being single and partying it up, go out, have fun, drink a bit, and mess around.

    You'll move on. It takes time. You are young too. Got a plethora of women ahead of you.

    Simply put, live life buddy. Don't waste time. Once you get older, you will realize it isn't worth sticking around on someone who isn't giving you some time. You just end up looking like an idiot in the end.


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