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    LoveJones is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Message on Facebook.

    So I met cutie outside of a local club. She was the girl taking tickets at the door, we spoke briefly, then a few hours later she came into the club; I didn't see her until I felt someone rubbing my head; looked up and there she was.

    She asked me if I was enjoying myself, and we spoke for a bit, made her laugh etc. My phone died so I couldn't get her #'s but I did manage to get her name, as I implied I would be looking her up on Facebook.

    Few days later I manage to send her the friend request along with a mssg that went like this "hey gorgeous girl with the insanely long name, we met at xxxx over the weekend."

    She accepted my request but no mssg back.

    Should I wait it out or mssg her again?

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    Default Re: Message on Facebook.

    Wait it out for several days, maybe longer. You want to make it seem like "Oh cool, now we've got a means of contact. I need to go back to my important life for a bit." If you start hounding her, it shows that she is your number one priority and you don't want it to seem that way. If you're going to use Facebook to game her, focus on being really positive with your posts and portray it as if you are a really active and passionate person. Social proof on Facebook is 'like's, comments on your posts, and cleverness. Also, having lots of girls making comments on your page is super helpful.

    If you don't want to use Facebook to game her, you should still wait it out, but when you hit her back make it really straightforward and to the point: "Hey, let's get lunch some time soon" and then try to get her number within a few messages, because you're an assertive and driven person and you know what you want.

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    Default Re: Message on Facebook.

    Ape is giving you great advice.

    It seems your target initiated contact and will certainly give you her ph#. I usually only wait two days to make contact. It's been working for me, but I know most guys wait longer.

    Have you done your homework and studied her FB persona? You can learn a lot about her if she's a FB junkie.
    Carpe diem!

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    Default Re: Message on Facebook.

    Thanks for the great advice fellas.

    It doest seem as thought she is a FB junkie, although she does have lots of 'friends'; more than me lOl.

    I think I'm goin to hit her up tonight. Maybe with a cheesy, cutesy pick up line just to get a laugh, and a serious invitie to hang out.

    Thoughts?

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    Default Re: Message on Facebook.

    Run the cheesy cutesie line by us first.
    Carpe diem!

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    Default Re: Message on Facebook.

    "you must be Jamaican, cause you're Jamaican me crazy"

    ***she's faaaar from Jamaican. I think it's pretty random ad comical.

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    Default Re: Message on Facebook.

    K, that's benign enough.

    I've used this one for the non-responders, "I'd like to get into your pants. Is there room in there for another arsehole?" They usually reply with, "You're not an arsehole." Then I reply, "Then why are you treating me like one?" They usually say they're sorry and I tell them they can make it up to me by going out w/me.
    Carpe diem!

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    Default Re: Message on Facebook.

    I really like that line, but i Feel as though it would have more effect if she knew me a lil bit better. She might take it the wrong way and think I calling her an arsehole.

    Either way I have to make contact tonight, it's been almost a week.

    Any other suggestions?


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