I really want to start a relationship with this girl, so experts your help would really be appreciated. I would like some advice on the method to approach this situation.
HB8 26yo who is my fresh graduate trainee at my workplace (I'm leaving the company and country soon, so dating her does'nt affect my career).
But has a low value BF 34yo uneducated truck driver boyfriend, who joined my company recently cause my boss wanted to 'help' him. They act like they don't know each other when they are in front of me.
I dont' know how much she likes him, but she is conservative and I think its hard to 'encourage' dumping the dude, she does'nt think her own future looks very bright.
28yo comparatively successful entrepreneur, has the heart & intellect... its really a no contest vs the truck driver. I'm not exactly a PUA, more of a natural gamer.
- Ive been using pretty good natural game on her for a while
- We go out on 'dates' after work
- My kino game is great, I hold her hand for like 5-10 seconds when walking in/out of restaurants, touch her waist/butt whenever i want. But no k-close
- She never mentions her BF to me, introduced me to her friends last week
Its quite obvious we're into each other, but im too pussy to make the move... or even know what the right move is..
how the hell do i handle this?
1) Escalate K close -> Awkward silence -> guilt trip/remorse -> ???
2) The talk : "e.g. i want a serious relationship etc..?", but i think its being too needy
I'm out of the country next week.. would it be good for me to do the 'talk' and give her time to think?