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    Default Need Assistance in Deciphering What this girl wants

    Ever Since I've found this site and had an obstacle with girls this community has helped and I am super grateful for it! And here I am again for some expert advice:

    There's this girl I kinda knew like we would just say hi and that's it. However, lately we have actually been hanging out (At Parties). She always hits me up randomly to hangout at a bar or wants to know if imma go to mutual friend's party(as a matter of fact she text me today if i was gonna go to a party). When i show up she's happy and we have fun i do my thing she does hers, we'll dance together whatever. she seems to be attracted to me sense she always complements my smile and says I'm cute and shit, and she is happy when she sees me and when i wanna leave she doesn't want me to. but whenever her hook up buddy gets in the picture she completely forgets about everybody and goes with him. so here is my question: should i attempt to hook up with her, or would it be a waste of time to try sense she is so heavily invested in this other guy? You guys have any tips on how to go about it if i were to try?

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    Like I said in my previous posts you fellas have never steered me wrong so I hope you guys can give me some good feed back!

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    Default Re: Need Assistance in Deciphering What this girl wants

    She is sending you some blatant IOIs. She's testing the waters. She is losing interest in the other guy or she wouldn't be sending you such blatant signals. Go for it.

    Isolate her from the other guy. Take her to a place where you are in control of the setting and he can't suddenly appear. Be very alpha. Tell her to turn her cell off and turn your's off too. Punish her if she txt anyone while w/you. Example: You catch her on her cell during your date. End the date right there. The only exception is if something serious happened like an accident or death in her family - then cut her some slack.

    She'll feel bad and will want to make it up to you. Hopefully, she'll comply and turn her cell off, which would be the green light that she wants to get intimate w/you.
    Last edited by EMSaenz; 04-01-2012 at 11:09 AM. Reason: typo
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    Default Re: Need Assistance in Deciphering What this girl wants

    Yes a agree with above the post.

    Even if she likes the other dude maybe she just wants to have more options in her life (like alot of guys want also)

    The longer you take to take the initiative the less likely anything is going to happen between you guys. You seem to know she likes you and you guys get on well enough to hang out so Im sure all thats missing is some balls so that you will make the move, make out with her and then sleep with her.

    You know it and we know. Do it.

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    Default Re: Need Assistance in Deciphering What this girl wants

    I agree with EMSaenz except the punishment part. The punishment should be a small, playful punishment. You can't end the date for that; she'll think you're a weird hard-ass and that you were seriously angry, which would not bode well for future communication. Tell her at the beginning of the date in an amicable, teasing manner, "My cell is always off on dates because my date deserves my full attention, so if anyone picks up a call today, they have to endure tickling for a whole minute as punishment!" Or something less corny. But yeah, that girl just wants to see if you're an option for her. He's already a done deal so he's a bird in the net. She doesn't know for sure about you yet so you're a bird in the bush and a bird in the net is worth 2 in the bush, so she may prioritize him over you sometimes. You can change that though...

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    Default Re: Need Assistance in Deciphering What this girl wants

    Thanks Sparta. Most women tell me that I'm a hardass. Guess I'm transparent enough for a skilled PUA like you to catch my drift. It's very helpful to have someone like you point out my shortcomings. I will soften my approach.
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    Default Re: Need Assistance in Deciphering What this girl wants

    We all came to this forum to learn! You'll be awesome for sure

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    Default Re: Need Assistance in Deciphering What this girl wants

    I am curious as to what the reactions and how the communications were after the dates where you ended it, EMSaenz.


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