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    jjj111111 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation From friend to boyfriend?

    Right, not sure if im posting in the right forums, but here goes.

    I have know a girl for about 8-9 month now.
    As soon as we met, I ve been making my moves, but didnt succeed. We probably had a little language problem( English is not our 1st language). 3 month after, we stopped contacting each other for about a month or two.

    Now we meet on weekly basis ( having dinner together, or just drinking coffee and stuff like that). Usually talk about anything that comes to our minds. She is perfectly fine talking about the boys that she dates, and the same goes for me. I saw her as a friend till recently, she probably thinks of me as just a friend thou.

    We are in our early 20th btw. If it will make any impact, I am russian, and she korean.
    Right now, I have a plan on my mind, which aim is just to have sex.
    All I am really afraid of is that we wont be friends anymore after that.

    My plan is either to drink at my place(renting with a mate) and lure her to my room, or just go to the hotel with an excuse of swimming pool or a spa( she likes that stuff).

    All I really want here is an advice. I am not exactly sure of how this stuff works ( I usually have steady relationships or just random sex). I do not mind her becoming a girlfriend ( I grow attached to people) , although I d probably prefer just sex on regular basis.

    I am going to do this by the end of this week, and probably ask her out for a dinner in a couple of days.
    Well, I think I just wrote a bunch of bullshit here, so plz ask me questions.

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    xcalibar is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: From friend to boyfriend?

    hey,

    Oki so, you seem a little confused on where you want to take this, I don't think you can "lure" a girl to your bedroom unless you have laid the ground work first. Women do not appreciate trusting you as a friend and then suddenly your trying to pounce on them. Going from friend to Fuck buddy isn't all that hard but requires some ground work.

    1. Make yourself unavailable for a short period.
    2. Comeback a changed guy, your new and if she sees that you will be able to create moves. New clothes, hairstyle jewellery etc.
    3. Starting bring sex to the conversation, tease her and NEG her, when you see her use KINO and escalate.
    4. Be ready to lose her as a friend, mostly this is temporary I find, you can always pull her back with an apology saying you couldn't help how you felt... bla bla bla.

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    jjj111111 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: From friend to boyfriend?

    Thats what I thought too. I am not shy, but I have a problem of being too slow to notice things, so I am actually a bit worried about that.

    1. Do I need to contact her at all during that time?
    2. I can certainly do new hairstyle.
    3. This part is quite easy, I know a lot about her ex's and the boys that she dated before. And, I think I do use NEGs sometimes. Im not afraid of doing that and I really like to tease her sometimes.
    Do I neeed to use Kino everytime we meet? I do it just occasionally when I feel like it. And I think I also touch her sometimes during the chat.
    4. Yeah, I think I can get an excuse for my behavior.

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    Default Re: From friend to boyfriend?

    Hey,

    If she contacts you speak to her keep it brief but escalate the conversation to sexual talks. Yes show you are interested, "I do it just occasionally when I feel like it." not good enough keep it high and keep it flowing.

    The trick here is to give her an idea where your intentions are. When you sepak to her on the phone to invite her over next, tease her, Keep the sexual talk high and show her that your flirting with her. If she doesn't get it be more direct.

    Once she is over, kino, escalate as much as possible. Remember she might resist at first as you are meant to be friends... this might take more then one meet up... be patient.


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