Right, not sure if im posting in the right forums, but here goes.
I have know a girl for about 8-9 month now.
As soon as we met, I ve been making my moves, but didnt succeed. We probably had a little language problem( English is not our 1st language). 3 month after, we stopped contacting each other for about a month or two.
Now we meet on weekly basis ( having dinner together, or just drinking coffee and stuff like that). Usually talk about anything that comes to our minds. She is perfectly fine talking about the boys that she dates, and the same goes for me. I saw her as a friend till recently, she probably thinks of me as just a friend thou.
We are in our early 20th btw. If it will make any impact, I am russian, and she korean.
Right now, I have a plan on my mind, which aim is just to have sex.
All I am really afraid of is that we wont be friends anymore after that.
My plan is either to drink at my place(renting with a mate) and lure her to my room, or just go to the hotel with an excuse of swimming pool or a spa( she likes that stuff).
All I really want here is an advice. I am not exactly sure of how this stuff works ( I usually have steady relationships or just random sex). I do not mind her becoming a girlfriend ( I grow attached to people) , although I d probably prefer just sex on regular basis.
I am going to do this by the end of this week, and probably ask her out for a dinner in a couple of days.
Well, I think I just wrote a bunch of bullshit here, so plz ask me questions.