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    aarbustos is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Angry Perfect Relationship til now...Parents/friends pushing her to break up

    So...we've been together for almost 2 yrs. I'm 29 shes 21, her parents have never been happy with any of her guys and they are fake in front of me. Her mom did and has told her that she should never be in a relationship with 1 guy til married! Hell she even dated during her engagement (not sure if she slept around or not). We had one big fight in December, we had a big good conversation about 1 month after on how it affected her (meanwhile she'd told her sis and friends her thoughts but not me). It was like a coming to Jesus type talk. We were slowly doin good and up until about a week ago things were great. I am done with military active obligation and am finishing my degree. We talked and she's been excited about me moving to her (not living together, just same city). She and I have lived in CO and we met 2 summers back, she goes to Texas A&M. I said I'd love to move near her and go back to school. She was thrilled and started talking future plans about small things. Last weekend her parents came into town and after shes been wierd. And said she's not sure what she wants, and that her sis told her that her mom in Jan thought we broke up and was super happy, and that some of her more "free spirited friends" told her we should break up (and we are super honest and have great communication, so she told me) etc.... I don't know what to do! Please Help?

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    Default Re: Perfect Relationship til now...Parents/friends pushing her to break up

    Don't worry about them. Don't attack them, ie "What? Your friend said that? That bimbo Stacy probably had too many dicks in her mouth and they poked up her brain." That will get her to defend her friends and distance herself from you. Just make sure she has a magical time with you and you can say that you "respect" their opinions but disagree. It's best if they never come up in conversation, but if they do and she asks you what she should do, be respectful when speaking of them. That will turn the tables. When her friends and family verbally attack you, she will defend you. In her mind, you are cool, but these crazy people keep attacking, so they must be wrong. I've done this before. I was with a girl who said her friends disapproved. I used this method and it ended with her defending me against her friends, with like 10 people failing to convince her to leave me. She left them to come find me later that night. They told her that I was a player and wouldn't marry her. In retrospect, they were right.


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