ok this is 2 weeks in a row where i was very sure i was getting laid with the girl.
I go out every week and easily enough make out with girls. My problem is not in getting them attracted but it is in getting them home. However i ask them to go to another bar or back to my house it doesnt seem to work.
Last night i did great with this very cute british girl at a bar. Did alot of high energy talking and convo with her. Busted her balls alot which she enjoyed ( it was the ccase that i could say "you absolute bitch" with a smile and get away with it, which i did do). I talked with her on the same bench but we were facing opposite directions. I still talked with my friends and didnt give her all the attention. The conversation flowed well and i kept it very fun and so did she.
Eventually i got the make out. I was the one who kept stopping the makeout while initiating. I was completely in charge. After a bit of this we were both sitting on bench facing eachother and she had her legs over me in a sexual position. The conversation got a bit sexual and I know she was turned on. I was moving my hands and brushing parts of her body. It was clear we both wanted to have sex (well to me atleast :P) She was putting emphasis on sexual comments also and ambiguous ones.
She happened to be staying in the hostel at the bar i was at. She told me it was impossible go go upstairs to her room with me. I said to her she can come and go to another bar with me and my friends (which we were going to go anyways)
Then they left as i was making out with her and the bar was closing up. I said cmon lets go its very close, and she basically refused to leave that place. Her 1 friend was there and some dude was chatting her up. Earlier i mentioned a few times that we could go to my house.
I acted like the alpha all along
I had lots of friends around (both girls and boys) and i was talking to them everynow and again giving me social proof.
I felt i almost definitely had alot of attraction and comfort with her
I didnt want to keep asking her (begging her) to come with me. I maybe asked 2-3 times
She was up for leaving with me said said my goodbyes and didnt go for a makeout with her
I was really angry, i just thought it would be more alpha by not kissing her goodbye
Stupidly i didnt get her contacts. She was travelling and prob didnt have a phone but i should have gotton something so i could have a second meet and close it up. I can always not call. Better to have and not want than to want and no have.
On the bus home i talked to the girl next to me and got her number. She was a cute czech girl. All in all i had alot of fun last night with all the people i met.
I feel i have hit a plateau in my gaming atm and i have only gotten laid once in the last 5 months which is pissing me off now. I have decided im gonig to get back into reading alot here and learning more stuff to use in the field.