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    Default Major sticking point - Getting from attraction to seduction

    ok this is 2 weeks in a row where i was very sure i was getting laid with the girl.

    I go out every week and easily enough make out with girls. My problem is not in getting them attracted but it is in getting them home. However i ask them to go to another bar or back to my house it doesnt seem to work.

    Last night i did great with this very cute british girl at a bar. Did alot of high energy talking and convo with her. Busted her balls alot which she enjoyed ( it was the ccase that i could say "you absolute bitch" with a smile and get away with it, which i did do). I talked with her on the same bench but we were facing opposite directions. I still talked with my friends and didnt give her all the attention. The conversation flowed well and i kept it very fun and so did she.
    Eventually i got the make out. I was the one who kept stopping the makeout while initiating. I was completely in charge. After a bit of this we were both sitting on bench facing eachother and she had her legs over me in a sexual position. The conversation got a bit sexual and I know she was turned on. I was moving my hands and brushing parts of her body. It was clear we both wanted to have sex (well to me atleast :P) She was putting emphasis on sexual comments also and ambiguous ones.

    She happened to be staying in the hostel at the bar i was at. She told me it was impossible go go upstairs to her room with me. I said to her she can come and go to another bar with me and my friends (which we were going to go anyways)

    Then they left as i was making out with her and the bar was closing up. I said cmon lets go its very close, and she basically refused to leave that place. Her 1 friend was there and some dude was chatting her up. Earlier i mentioned a few times that we could go to my house.

    My thoughts:
    I acted like the alpha all along
    I had lots of friends around (both girls and boys) and i was talking to them everynow and again giving me social proof.
    I felt i almost definitely had alot of attraction and comfort with her
    I didnt want to keep asking her (begging her) to come with me. I maybe asked 2-3 times
    She was up for leaving with me said said my goodbyes and didnt go for a makeout with her
    I was really angry, i just thought it would be more alpha by not kissing her goodbye

    Stupidly i didnt get her contacts. She was travelling and prob didnt have a phone but i should have gotton something so i could have a second meet and close it up. I can always not call. Better to have and not want than to want and no have.

    On the bus home i talked to the girl next to me and got her number. She was a cute czech girl. All in all i had alot of fun last night with all the people i met.

    I feel i have hit a plateau in my gaming atm and i have only gotten laid once in the last 5 months which is pissing me off now. I have decided im gonig to get back into reading alot here and learning more stuff to use in the field.

    skept

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    Default Re: Major sticking point - Getting from attraction to seduction

    Quote Originally Posted by Skeptikill View Post
    ok this is 2 weeks in a row where i was very sure i was getting laid with the girl.

    I go out every week and easily enough make out with girls. My problem is not in getting them attracted but it is in getting them home. However i ask them to go to another bar or back to my house it doesnt seem to work.

    Last night i did great with this very cute british girl at a bar. Did alot of high energy talking and convo with her. Busted her balls alot which she enjoyed ( it was the ccase that i could say "you absolute bitch" with a smile and get away with it, which i did do). I talked with her on the same bench but we were facing opposite directions. I still talked with my friends and didnt give her all the attention. The conversation flowed well and i kept it very fun and so did she.
    Eventually i got the make out. I was the one who kept stopping the makeout while initiating. I was completely in charge. After a bit of this we were both sitting on bench facing eachother and she had her legs over me in a sexual position. The conversation got a bit sexual and I know she was turned on. I was moving my hands and brushing parts of her body. It was clear we both wanted to have sex (well to me atleast :P) She was putting emphasis on sexual comments also and ambiguous ones.

    She happened to be staying in the hostel at the bar i was at. She told me it was impossible go go upstairs to her room with me. I said to her she can come and go to another bar with me and my friends (which we were going to go anyways)

    Then they left as i was making out with her and the bar was closing up. I said cmon lets go its very close, and she basically refused to leave that place. Her 1 friend was there and some dude was chatting her up. Earlier i mentioned a few times that we could go to my house.

    My thoughts:
    I acted like the alpha all along
    I had lots of friends around (both girls and boys) and i was talking to them everynow and again giving me social proof.
    I felt i almost definitely had alot of attraction and comfort with her
    I didnt want to keep asking her (begging her) to come with me. I maybe asked 2-3 times
    She was up for leaving with me said said my goodbyes and didnt go for a makeout with her
    I was really angry, i just thought it would be more alpha by not kissing her goodbye

    Stupidly i didnt get her contacts. She was travelling and prob didnt have a phone but i should have gotton something so i could have a second meet and close it up. I can always not call. Better to have and not want than to want and no have.

    On the bus home i talked to the girl next to me and got her number. She was a cute czech girl. All in all i had alot of fun last night with all the people i met.

    I feel i have hit a plateau in my gaming atm and i have only gotten laid once in the last 5 months which is pissing me off now. I have decided im gonig to get back into reading alot here and learning more stuff to use in the field.

    skept
    Is the same night lay really that important? In my experience solid game dictates a Day 2 in most instances. You should've gotten the contact info..that was a blunder but I fail to see how you failed in any other way. While I'm sure she wanted sex, logistics can always be a problem. She didn't want to abandon her friend for you. That is not unusual at all.

    She's staying there right now, so go back and get your Day 2.


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