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    i_likem_all22 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Okay so last weekend i met a girl at this party. We instantly built rapport and we connected early. With me building attraction and really seducing her. We actually ended up making out. That whole night before this all we left the party and went for a walk and talk with just me and her. It was unbelievable the attraction i was building. This was my first time in a party situation like this. It was actually a party with invites only at a local place where my friend invited me. So the next morning she leaves early and gives me her card with her number and a smiley face on the back. So i text her later that day. We then planned to meet up this weekend.

    So Friday night comes and i come out to her place and she makes me dinner. Which was great by the way! And fixes me some drinks and we watch a movie and then she kicks me out.

    The next morning she was suppose to catch a flight to Atlanta for some business but missed her flight because she over slept. So 15 minutes before she was suppose to catch her flight, she wakes up and says she was about to pack some things.

    We spend the whole Saturday together we went out to brunch, she paid for it, and to the movies which i paid for. then after the movies we went go-kart riding which she paid for also about $140. We then come back home and she makes us food and we watch a movie. Then she played the piano for me and we went to sleep.

    Now her is the thing. i am 20 and she is 30. 10 year age difference. So what do you guys think of the situation? The conversations we have are really deep and she talks about things only lover's would discuss. She has two kids by the way. After i left today she texts me and says how she looks forward to our future weekends together. We even discussed traveling together once the summer arrives. Soooo what do you guys think of this situation? i am kind of confused i really feel like we have something going, but at the same time there is some doubt still in the back of my head.

    All thoughts are welcomed.

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    Default Re: Older Women Situation

    You gotta look at both your goals you're still young still have a lot of exciting years ahead not looking to settle.. while shes had her fun and is probably looking for something a bit more permanent.. correct me if I'm wrong. So if you really think shes worth the time stick with it. You gotta realize also that becoming her boy friend would mean taking on a fatherly role since she has kids. Stay true to yourself even if it means sacrificing that awesome sex. Good luck bro.

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    You are right about that. Good point!
    I've thought about that a lot. But what do you think her motives or intentions are though?
    Throughout our conversations she always referred back to how active her kids father is in her kids life as far as taking care of them and helping pay for things in their life. She even went as far to tell me one of her kids were a mistake. Not that she would change what happened. Its really tricky because I am trying to figure out if this is all just for sex but from the looks of things, her actions, and how attracted she is to me, it seems to be a lot more. I'm not sure though. Just looking for a little advise. I'm really feeling her. She's a great person. But as you said I'm only 20 she's already lived hers plus some. Its like she loves the young youthful energy I bring into her life.
    Its a tricky situation.

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    Default Re: Older Women Situation

    It seems pretty golden for now but if anything changes recess the situation. Don't make any compromises without thinking about it hard first. Besides that it seems pretty awesome bro.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: Older Women Situation

    Congratz bro, that's an awesome situation to be in. I had one like that, she did all of that for me and could get me into hot clubs( when i was 17, She was 26 ). Older women have a lot of experience and knowledge to give to you.

    Kids.........if this went any further, would you mind being called dad??? And if u can go that far, if u break it off with her, ur also gonna have to break up with the kids.

    Good luck!!

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    Default Re: Older Women Situation

    Thanks for the responses guys.

    @Yolo007 trust me i wont make ANY hasty decisions. I really like the situation i am in. Im fully in control of it. I just have to really worry about the kids..hmm we will see.


    @Woodstock516 Yeah it really is an awesome situation to be in. Its pretty crazy how it happened! I may post a thread about it in the Field report section. You are right older women have alot of experience and knowlegde to share, thats what i love about it. She is really teaching me alot about the world and things she is into such as real estate and so on. Its really cool. I actually like it. The only problem is the whole dad thing.. Her son is 9 so im sure he knows im not his father, and her daughter is 5. She always shares with me how active their fathers are in doing for them. I guess not trying to scare me off with the idea of having to step in as the father of the two kids. I really like the fact she has her own place..makes VERY good money. Is offering to pay for trips for me to go with her on. Its pretty amazing man.
    While i like this situation i am still maintaing my other female friends ive met at clubs, and while doing "Day game". I am just a little more reserved with my advances now, and just friends with them.

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    Default Re: Older Women Situation

    Agreed!! its amazing!! TRIPS??? She seems to have fallen head over heels for u, the kids are a tough choice tho, so take ur time. You should talk to her about this, make sure she knows that u mean well. Smart idea with the other girls.

    Would she happen to have a younger sister??


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