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    735u5777 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Talking Need help with Social disorder

    Hey guys,I'm sorry if this is placed in wrong thread or completely off topic,If you mind..Please tell me wheres a better place to post about this topic thanks.
    Just wondering if anyone here has ideas how I should improve myself or what to do in this current situation.

    Talking to people hasn't been easy,and I'm showing minor symptoms of social anxiety,When talking to friends(Male and Female),I can't have funny conversations,my conversational structure usually ends up around myself and but I've got no clue how to get out of this state.I've been living in a negative household for over 7 years and after dropping out of school My social skills seem to have reached rock bottom from my point of view I'm currently an extremely serious,deeply emotional person,never able to joke or chill,when starting conversations I Never have anything to say Nothing pops up in my head or its the lamest stuff like"hey..whats this?"because nothing comes up,Anyone got ideas how to cure this?

    small talk like "did you have lunch today",are defiantly not a problem but even when Joking or chilling with friends I can't change the topic off myself or speaking negatively,nothing funny or good comebacks.Its not an issue of shyness,When talking to woman I'm not afraid or anything about them,My anxiety comes from having nothing to say,but I can't seem to have cocky funny behavior,and I soon have nothing to say.

    therefore my questions here are How can I joke around ,and what to do when theres awkward silences and nothing to chat about.and how to focus off oneself in conversations,and be able to talk freely.

    Help Much appreciated for life if cured

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    yeaimchill is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Smile Re: Need help with Social disorder

    Hey man just be your best self maybe talk about some interest you have maybe she might have somthing in common somthing that will help you feel positive is when you get up in the morning list things off in your mind that your thankful for and thank god or if you don't believe in that just the universe for everything you have it gets me into a positive grove be happy and if your trying to be funny just say stuff you think is funny and it sounds like you may be nervous from being isolated from other people try to find a good group of friends to hang out with but make sure they are your friends and not a bunch of jerks they could be jokingly teasing you though as you want to the girl also try to become an alpha male which I am in the progress of look up simple pickup on YouTube they have some good tips like maintain eye contact and be loud (when appropiate) and confident and if you have trouble talking to women or dudes for friends bring a buddy as a wingman to back you up
    Hope this helps


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