Hey guys I'm new here. I hate to demand advice as a first post but I'm stuck on a cycling train of thought at the moment and my IRL friends seem to be caught up in there own problems.
I met this girl in College in September last year (from UK so our College is more like an extension of highschool where as University is identical to your College). She actually spoke to me first which caught me a little off guard as I'm quite a big burly guy and many of my female friends have told me I'm quite intimidating as a stranger. To boot, when I actually got to know this girl a little better I realised she's actually quite shy.
I'd just like to say straight up that I've hardly had a clean run with this girl. In less than a week she already offered to give me a ride to college on Wednesdays as we both had the same lesson in the mornings. I was kinda awkward in the car as she asked some questions that I wasn't really comfortable with like if I had any life savings not mention the fact that her car was so damn loud we could hardly hear eachother.
Anyway, the next week I ask her for a lift and she pulls out the boyfriend card saying that she had to give him a ride home before she went to class. At that point the message was clear to me so I just brushed it off and carried on with life.
That was about 8 months ago, I haven't asked her for a ride since on the basis I don't want to come across as that douchebag who always asks for favours. We get on well in class and I managed to get her number fairly easily and she has been giving me great IOI's. We have great eye contact, neither of us break even for a second when we talk. Our conversations always seem to lead to marriage or relationships and I've caught her staring at me and vice versa and on the last occasion we spoke it lead to us staring eachother out whilst the teacher lectured and she ended up giggling the second time it happened. Her body language is always aimed towards me in pretty much any way you can think of at one time or another.
My only problem with this girl is the boyfriend barrier. I haven't really made a huge move since the car incident apart from hell of a lot of flirting in class on the basis girls with boyfriends are usually a waste of time. However after not speaking with her for nearly a fortnight I realised I actually kinda like her. I ended up sending her a text, she sent me a promising reply but when I asked her how she was I got no reply. My ego is telling me she was just busy but obviously I can't text her again at risk of coming across as needy.
My question to you guys is, what the hell do I do when I see her again? I can't stand another day of flirting which leads to nothing and not being able to ask her on a date as she has a boyfriend. I never really cared about this until 2 weeks ago when I realised we will probably lose contact at the end of our exams.
I am sorry this post is quite a big read but I wanted to try and exclaim as much information as I could so you guys could give the best advice. Any feed back is highly valued and appreciated.
EDIT: I must also add that she always seems to be quite blunt with her boyfriend on facebook and he says the most DOUCHEY sh1t to her sometimes. I might not be so interested in this girl if I didn't think that she was out of his league and I was better than him. This girls easily a HB9 maybe even 10.