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    Default Picking up off the dance floor?

    Hi

    I go clubbing allot because I love the music and I am a good dancer, and when I am dancing hot chicks start surrounding me and getting pretty close... But I dunno is it wise to start slightly rubbing up against them a bit?
    The damn music is so loud you can't really talk.
    Maybe just smile at em and say lets go for a chat or something?

    Any advice much appreciated.

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    Default Re: Picking up off the dance floor?

    NO!! A good PUA waits for the HB to initiate IOIs.

    You will give off the vibe that you're needy.

    Hands off.
    Carpe diem!

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    Default Re: Picking up off the dance floor?

    I don't necessarily agree. The girls may be waiting for your IOIs (especially the shy ones, which I like most). An attitude like that (no IOIs unless you show IOIs first) usually results in a stand-off that could have been something. You will regret it thinking about it later. "Gosh, that girl who was dancing near me for like 30 minutes and looking at me was hot! She left eventually. I wonder if I could have gotten her if I initiated contact..." Lingering thought will kill you! Even if you get rejected, it feels fine because you know you gave it a shot and it there is nothing more you can ask for than that. So yeah, if they dance near you (which is already an IOI) then put your hand around her waist and grind with her. When you grind her from behind, you can easily whisper into her ear. Perfect! Clubbing time is valuable; from 12am to 2pm, you paid $20 cover for 2 hours to make as many contacts as possible with beautiful women. Waste no time with stand-offs and waiting for IOIs. And remember, if you get rejected, then move on! NEXT! So many fish in the sea and so many other girls at the club (and the other clubs down the street). If she rejects you, your thoughts rest in peace; if you don't approach her and initiate, you reject yourself, and that's when everything really feels like shit.

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    Default Re: Picking up off the dance floor?

    Quote Originally Posted by thisisSPARTAAAA View Post
    I don't necessarily agree. The girls may be waiting for your IOIs (especially the shy ones, which I like most). An attitude like that (no IOIs unless you show IOIs first) usually results in a stand-off that could have been something. You will regret it thinking about it later. "Gosh, that girl who was dancing near me for like 30 minutes and looking at me was hot! She left eventually. I wonder if I could have gotten her if I initiated contact..." Lingering thought will kill you! Even if you get rejected, it feels fine because you know you gave it a shot and it there is nothing more you can ask for than that. So yeah, if they dance near you (which is already an IOI) then put your hand around her waist and grind with her. When you grind her from behind, you can easily whisper into her ear. Perfect! Clubbing time is valuable; from 12am to 2pm, you paid $20 cover for 2 hours to make as many contacts as possible with beautiful women. Waste no time with stand-offs and waiting for IOIs. And remember, if you get rejected, then move on! NEXT! So many fish in the sea and so many other girls at the club (and the other clubs down the street). If she rejects you, your thoughts rest in peace; if you don't approach her and initiate, you reject yourself, and that's when everything really feels like shit.
    I think your right man the kind of clubs I go to Bitches are looking for one nighters.. As am I. If you just press your chest against her a bit and she dosen't move away you might be in. and aint breaking any laws

    Arrr its so fucking hard though. I have had Social Anxiety and Major Depression my hole life and am 29 and am only just begining to talk to random girls... So sad... Ill read this board more though and I'll be arright.

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    Default Re: Picking up off the dance floor?

    Why's it hard? It's not hard. If you said you can dance well and girls are dancing close to you, then do what you do. Press your chest on them a bit and touch their hips with your hands. If nobody's running away, you're in! Sounds good to me!

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    Default Re: Picking up off the dance floor?

    Yeah, I'm with Sparta on this one. I break(dance) in my free time and usually when I'm done I'll get some vibes from girls similiar to what you've described. I just go up to them, put my hand out, and if they take it they want to dance with me. If not, on to the next one. So just offer her your hand. It's a simple compliance test.
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    Default Re: Picking up off the dance floor?

    Are you lOoking for a bitch? Then do the humpty dump. You want a classy HB10. Restrain yourself.
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    Default Re: Picking up off the dance floor?

    No, I think restraining ourselves is what the vast majority of what people do. When girls dance near them, they don't respond. The girl doesn't want to take the first step either so after a while, she leaves. And they both go home alone. That is the typical result of not being a man and initiating contact while you still have the chance. By calling for "restraint" you are talking about going onto the dance floor to just dance, and waiting for an HB10 to initiate contact??!! Seriously, how good of a dancer and how good-looking do you have to be for that to happen to you often? And how is this restraint, meaning not approaching the girl first, any different from that actions of an AFC who doesn't have the courage to approach her?

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    Default Re: Picking up off the dance floor?

    I see your point Sparta. If you wait the next AMOG will take your place. I meant it more in the sence of findind a soulmate.
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    Default Re: Picking up off the dance floor?

    I meant it in meeting a girl in general. That girl who's dancing next to you could turn out to be your soul mate, or she could turn out to be that bitch you wish you never met. You just don't know until you get into a real relationship. But if you don't approach her, chances are, she won't approach you. If that never happens, you won't exchange numbers. Then there's no chance you could ask her out to get to know her better, and then even if she is your soul mate, there's no chance you could find out. But in general, clubs aren't the perfect place to look for soul mates... Clubs are loud, semi-violent places and if you're not fast and aggressive, other alpha males will take everything and leave you standing in the parking lot at closing time wondering what kind of leftovers are still walking out alone. Been there, don't miss it.


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