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    Default Hot Natural Comes into my Social Circle; Getting all my favorite girls!

    Well I have to say I'm right miffed. Last couple weeks a really good looking natural came into my social circle and I'm losing my girls to the guy.

    I've seen him operate and the dude is just plain smooth. Tight verbal game and looks that are a whole league above mine. Whereas we both get to screw the same good looking women, they give him zero sh1t tests and resistance. Unlike me where getting them is like pulling teeth sometimes getting past all the LMR and sh1t tests. They constantly test me, and I'm constantly passing them, but I definitely get more shit and resistance than I should be getting given my level of game.

    I like the guy alot and went out picking up with him this week, but the damn girls only have eyes for him. Sure, I manage to peel one off for myself, but you can tell who they'd rather be with and that doesn't sit well with me at all. I'm not one to pick up another players table scraps no matter how fine they might be.

    Gotta figure out how to bust my game up to a higher level, but anyone who says "looks don't matter" is full of it. Living proof of it slaps me in the face whenever this dude comes around. I gotta figure something new out, that's for sure cause this dude ain't going anywhere.

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    Default Re: Hot Natural Comes into my Social Circle; Getting all my favorite girls!

    LOL. No matter who you are, there's always gonna be someone out there who is taller, better looking, richer, and has a bigger cock. He blocks the sun in your eyes but there's someone out there who can eclipse him too. You just gotta live with it. I have seen some instances where the guy is by no means good-looking at all and broke as Somalia but there's a beautiful girl truly in love with him. How? They are not better looking or richer; these are parameters that can always be exceeded by someone else, making you feel inferior. These guys have their own style. Being less physically attractive will take away from the "wow" factor when girls first see you but as long as you are not ugly and can convince them to explore you deeper, you can use style and humor to completely capture a woman beyond what rich and handsome can do. But as for competing with him at club pickups, you just may be out of luck. Being better looking will give a definite advantage to the early game. Not too much you can do about that.

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    Default Re: Hot Natural Comes into my Social Circle; Getting all my favorite girls!

    Quote Originally Posted by thisisSPARTAAAA View Post
    LOL. No matter who you are, there's always gonna be someone out there who is taller, better looking, richer, and has a bigger cock. He blocks the sun in your eyes but there's someone out there who can eclipse him too. You just gotta live with it. I have seen some instances where the guy is by no means good-looking at all and broke as Somalia but there's a beautiful girl truly in love with him. How? They are not better looking or richer; these are parameters that can always be exceeded by someone else, making you feel inferior. These guys have their own style. Being less physically attractive will take away from the "wow" factor when girls first see you but as long as you are not ugly and can convince them to explore you deeper, you can use style and humor to completely capture a woman beyond what rich and handsome can do. But as for competing with him at club pickups, you just may be out of luck. Being better looking will give a definite advantage to the early game. Not too much you can do about that.
    It would be different if he were just a good looking AFC. We're not talking about that. That would be too easy. No God has to drop a straight tight player in my midst to remind me of my place in the gene pool. No alpha male likes that. LOL

    The good thing is the dude likes me, I mean he recognizes my game as tight and definitely wants me around to take the other girls off his back, hell practically hands them to me on a silver platter. I'm just not sure I like being the junior wingman have been operating on my own for so long. LOL

    I recognize this is something to live with and see it as a challenge to step up to. But damn, what a challenge.

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    Default Re: Hot Natural Comes into my Social Circle; Getting all my favorite girls!

    No, that's a darn good wing. I've got the opposite problems. All my wings are awkward and lanky characters. I've even had a girl tell me that I'm good-looking and don't need ugly, short friends like that! It's not because I like picking inexperienced and ill-equipped guys; it's that I don't have anything better around. I always have to open sets with my awkward wing standing behind me like a vulture waiting for carrion... I wish I had another alpha to open up some sets for me once in a while!

    But it's interesting that you said no alpha male likes that. Fake alphas will be really peeved by that but you have to ascend into being a real alpha. Real alphas are not threatened by other alphas; that's why the "popular group" consists of 5 good-looking alpha males hanging out together. An alpha is confident that he is a king in his own right no matter who shows up. He doesn't have to compete on any parameter with other guys; he knows he's an awesome and unique combination in himself. That's a real alpha!

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    Default Re: Hot Natural Comes into my Social Circle; Getting all my favorite girls!

    Quote Originally Posted by thisisSPARTAAAA View Post
    No, that's a darn good wing. I've got the opposite problems. All my wings are awkward and lanky characters. I've even had a girl tell me that I'm good-looking and don't need ugly, short friends like that! It's not because I like picking inexperienced and ill-equipped guys; it's that I don't have anything better around. I always have to open sets with my awkward wing standing behind me like a vulture waiting for carrion... I wish I had another alpha to open up some sets for me once in a while!

    But it's interesting that you said no alpha male likes that. Fake alphas will be really peeved by that but you have to ascend into being a real alpha. Real alphas are not threatened by other alphas; that's why the "popular group" consists of 5 good-looking alpha males hanging out together. An alpha is confident that he is a king in his own right no matter who shows up. He doesn't have to compete on any parameter with other guys; he knows he's an awesome and unique combination in himself. That's a real alpha!
    Oh there's no doubt about it that I'm a natural beta. That is an established fact. This is why I get so many sh1ts tests I think. Women sense I'm not a real natural alpha male, and so they sh1t test me waiting to see the AFC come out, but I'm too smooth for that and beat their tests but they still sense something isn't quite right which is why I get so much LMR and Buyer's Remorse I think and also the biggest reason I operate alone. If conditions aren't just right, I lose the lay. So I do everything I can to take chance out of the equation.

    I hate being reminded of that fact by "real" alphas. One thing is for sure I'm no carrion vulture. LMAO

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    Default Re: Hot Natural Comes into my Social Circle; Getting all my favorite girls!

    Natural alpha doesn't mean you have to be born an alpha. It's not a species; it's a mentality. It can be achieved through experience. Natural alpha just means that you have the mentality of an alpha. You consider yourself an alpha. When a situation arises, you handle it like an alpha, without thinking to yourself, "What did Neil Strauss say to do in this situation?" When you've become seasoned enough to know what to do on your own immediate judgement, and the resulting action is alpha in behavior, then you're a natural alpha. Chances are, if you believe you are an alpha, you are a real alpha. If you keep thinking you are a beta posing as an alpha, then that's what you are and that's what girls will see. I was born a beta too (or I probably would never bother to search for PUA techniques), but through intense self-improvement (which was far beyond the scope of The Game or just interaction with people), I now consider myself a real alpha.

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    Default Re: Hot Natural Comes into my Social Circle; Getting all my favorite girls!

    Quote Originally Posted by thisisSPARTAAAA View Post
    Natural alpha doesn't mean you have to be born an alpha. It's not a species; it's a mentality. It can be achieved through experience. Natural alpha just means that you have the mentality of an alpha. You consider yourself an alpha. When a situation arises, you handle it like an alpha, without thinking to yourself, "What did Neil Strauss say to do in this situation?" When you've become seasoned enough to know what to do on your own immediate judgement, and the resulting action is alpha in behavior, then you're a natural alpha. Chances are, if you believe you are an alpha, you are a real alpha. If you keep thinking you are a beta posing as an alpha, then that's what you are and that's what girls will see. I was born a beta too (or I probably would never bother to search for PUA techniques), but through intense self-improvement (which was far beyond the scope of The Game or just interaction with people), I now consider myself a real alpha.
    Yeah. I'm gonna have to just suck it up and consider this one of life's little character building exercises. I guess I'm just salty at losing one of my favorite lays to him. LOL

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    Default Re: Hot Natural Comes into my Social Circle; Getting all my favorite girls!

    Well, now this asshole is really screwing up sh1t.

    How he dropped into my social circle is he was the friend of one of our waitresses who got him a job here at my hotel where I work. Now he's man whoring his way through the women here and causing all kinds of sh1t for us.

    First he knocked up our head of housekeeping after being here a couple weeks and she had to have an abortion and of course the ass didn't pay a dime for and she was so upset by the ordeal she just quit on us. So we lost an excellent head housekeeper.

    He's farking two girls on the desk staff, and is so open and crass about it that the two girls who were friends are now at each other's throats and can barely function together to the point we have to schedule them on separate shifts away from each other and we'll probably end up losing one or both of them once he bores himself with them and moves on.

    I understand being a pretty boy player..that's cool with me, but not sh1tting where I sleep. That is a different story. We tried to be cool about it and say "hey man, this isn't some club or dive bar here, this is a professional establishment and we can't have you farking the staff and making drama between them like this." I can't say a whole lot about it because I was farking one of the desk staff, and the day manager was farking the head of housekeeping himself but we all kept it on the low low and didn't fark multiple women in a systematic playerish way.

    He says "Oh man. I'm sorry blah blah blah, can't help it the girls want it, blah blah blah" but obviously has no intention of changing his behavior regarding the women here.

    Sure, when people work together things happen between co workers. That is one thing, but it is an entirely different thing to systematically go through each and every available woman at a workplace, knocking them up, playing jealousy plotlines between them, etc. It's just plain wrong.

    The problem is no one thinks we can legally fire him.

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    Default Re: Hot Natural Comes into my Social Circle; Getting all my favorite girls!

    Look at this way: the women he screwed at your job are worth nothing if they are stupid enough to sleep with same guy whom they KNOW is a man whore. This guy isn't a man, hell he's not even an alpha male. He's a DESTROYER; did he really leave the women better than when he first met them? No. I don't think he can based on what you are telling me, and I'm not one to judge.

    You ever heard that line where women say, "When a man does a million women, he is considered a god. But when a woman gets laid only twice a year, she is considered a slut." Here is a better way to see this: "A key that opens many locks is considered a master key. But a lock that is opened by many keys... is a shitty lock." The women weren't worth the time, my friend.

    But I can understand the devastation. Hell, I would be pissed if I were in your shoes, seeing my former coworkers leave because of this bull. And to top it all off, you are now stuck working with a true jerk. I think we all know how that feels.

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    Default Re: Hot Natural Comes into my Social Circle; Getting all my favorite girls!

    Why are we ragging on this guy? From what I can tell, he's got soo much skills with women that he's becomming dysfunctional in other places! That's impressive and if the women at your hotel were hot then this guy is some real impressive stuff! He's a jerk; he's an alpha; he's making people jealous; that's what we all came to PUA to master! Another impressive part is that after doing so, he avoided confrontation with the guys who disproved! He's got social skill up the wazoo! Come on, we all secretly wish we could start work somewhere and bang up every beautiful woman working there as well; even if it causes us to be fired in the end, it's worth it! Makes you feel like you came, you conquered everything, you left. Learn from this guy; don't hate on him!


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