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Thread: Stuck in a rut

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    Default Stuck in a rut

    Hey Guys,

    I don't really have a good way to introduce this so I'm just going to say it. I'm bored. I can't seem to meet any interesting women who can keep my attention. Sure they're cute and fun for a while but I grow tired of them fast. I find myself choosing to read, write, do homework, and stay in my dorm room instead of going out because I find it more fun than wasting my time with girls who don't matter.

    Anyone know how to help me get out of this rut? I'm depressed and need someone who's been here before. Thanks.
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    Default Re: Stuck in a rut

    Hey man I'm sure its easier to say, but you're in college as it seems, so it really shouldn't be that hard- i mean just meeting interesting girls/ppl.

    I been there, but I sure miss college- since I finished 3 years ago ha.

    Keep doin wat it is you do, follow your interests, hang out with your friendos. I've noticed just doin that is the easiest way to meet girls, when your doin sometin you like it often happens more natural.
    Usually helps me out of a rut.

    Game on..

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    Default Re: Stuck in a rut

    mr.onethousand, we'll have to make to make a roadtrip out of Iowa one of these days. Find some more interesting girls.

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    Default Re: Stuck in a rut

    Few things I learned from David DeAngelo, surround yourself with successful models while eliminating failure models. Also as long as you know your purpose and path in life you just need to stay on it. He also quotes Confucius "Man who chases two rabbits catches none." If you find your purpose or path in life and then get on it and stay on it and do not allow any woman to distract you or throw you off, they will find you more attractive and line up for you. I advice you to download the 77 Laws of Success With Women And Dating.
    Remember you are responsible for generating your own experience of Reality.

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    Default Re: Stuck in a rut

    I've been there. PUA teaches you a process to meet women. Most never get reports of how a woman is interesting but just how to involve them in a social setting. Which most men are not fond of social events.

    I find David Wygant and Adam Lyons are good to read for this type of info. Night game is fun, but its tough to find a woman that has similar interest. You have to meet woman in places that interest you. I say list what your interest are and determine where you go to enjoy those interest. Meet women there.

    The toughest change is going from changing if they keep your attention/interest. To be genuinely interested in learning about other people. It is extremely challenging to change from being inwardly focused to outwardly focused, if you do it will make pick up 200% easy.


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