I swear dating after 30 can be such a pain in the ass. You want to have an exciting and fun date, so that rules out boring "dinner and movie" dates. But because the women are older, they don't want to do anything FUN. They want to go and have "quiet drinks" somewhere and "talk" not realizing that sh1t is BORING, both for them and their date. Then they sit around and wonder where all the "exciting" men are who are going to sweept them off their feet! This obviously involves some kind of physical activity. At night that involves only a very few things.
I can't be expected to hold the excitement level for 2-3 hours while we're out just "talking".
I have a date Thursday with the HB I met from POF that I mentioned in my field report: http://www.puaforums.com/pick-up-fie...d-my-game.html
I wracked my brains trying to come up with a date plan and each one she shot down for one reason or another. Older women don't like clubs for some reason, so dancing is out. She doesn't want to go to the comedy club. I've looked around, no interesting community events or stuff to go to. I'm stuck with basically repeating our first meetup, go to a bar for drinks and "quiet talking".
How the hell is a man supposed to keep a woman on her toes and excited if she hates the idea of doing anything actually exciting and fun? I need to get her loosened up and excited in order to run my closing game but I can't think of anything.