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    Default Stimulating Date ideas for Mature Persons?

    I swear dating after 30 can be such a pain in the ass. You want to have an exciting and fun date, so that rules out boring "dinner and movie" dates. But because the women are older, they don't want to do anything FUN. They want to go and have "quiet drinks" somewhere and "talk" not realizing that sh1t is BORING, both for them and their date. Then they sit around and wonder where all the "exciting" men are who are going to sweept them off their feet! This obviously involves some kind of physical activity. At night that involves only a very few things.

    I can't be expected to hold the excitement level for 2-3 hours while we're out just "talking".

    I have a date Thursday with the HB I met from POF that I mentioned in my field report: http://www.puaforums.com/pick-up-fie...d-my-game.html

    I wracked my brains trying to come up with a date plan and each one she shot down for one reason or another. Older women don't like clubs for some reason, so dancing is out. She doesn't want to go to the comedy club. I've looked around, no interesting community events or stuff to go to. I'm stuck with basically repeating our first meetup, go to a bar for drinks and "quiet talking".

    How the hell is a man supposed to keep a woman on her toes and excited if she hates the idea of doing anything actually exciting and fun? I need to get her loosened up and excited in order to run my closing game but I can't think of anything.

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    Default Re: Stimulating Date ideas for Mature Persons?

    Hey man. You're gonna have to get creative in another sense. Ask them out for a drink, build comfort, and then take them on the interesting date you've planned but haven't told them about. If they're into you I think they'll oblige, if they don't then just forget them.

    W/e happens or comes up or you decide you want to do, lead them! And let them know you don't settle for boring women.

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    Default Re: Stimulating Date ideas for Mature Persons?

    Quote Originally Posted by prescriptions View Post
    Hey man. You're gonna have to get creative in another sense. Ask them out for a drink, build comfort, and then take them on the interesting date you've planned but haven't told them about. If they're into you I think they'll oblige, if they don't then just forget them.

    W/e happens or comes up or you decide you want to do, lead them! And let them know you don't settle for boring women.
    Nah it isn't even about the date itself. I have a specific kind of date I'm trying to shoot for and none of the women I've met seem to want to cooperate and I don't know if its sheer laziness or what.

    I would like just once, for one of the women I'm dating, who are all attractive good looking women, to actually put on a damn dress, do her hair and nails, put on some makeup and actually look like she gives a damn about what she looks like and let me parade them around as the arm candy they really could be if they'd just stop being so damn lazy.

    I find zero wrong in a man wanting to parade his date around and take pride in her beauty and appearance but women act as if that is some kind of evil thing to do anymore. As if being arm candy for their date is bad!

    I tell them, "Wear something cute." and they all say "ok!" and then show up in a pair of jeans and a shirt, or some bull sh1t like that. For once I'd like a woman to stop acting like a dance club is some terrible place for an adult couple to go. To many damn expectations and if you try to break them, you get sh1t for it, as if you are some kind of monster for expecting her to actually do something to keep your attention. I even offer to take them to the salon and get them a makeover on me, and I always get the same crap "if you want some girly girl then go find one, I'm not her." What kind of woman denies her own femininity and sex appeal to the point that women who don't deny it are denigrated and hated so?

    Sexiness and life don't just end at 30, yet too many women think that after 30 means you have to settle into some sedentary lifestyle free of any kind of youthful exhuberance or fun. Why? It makes no sense. If the kids are fed and well taken care of and you get out with a good looking man who obviously takes pride in HIS appearance, what would make any woman think he should accept her ratty "around the house or to the grocery store" appearance as a normal dating attire?

    Of course if you bring this up women feed you some feminist nonsense about how how that is all patriarchal oppression expecting a woman to actually act and dress feminine. I'm about to just tell girls flat out "If you don't show up looking like a sexy vixen who wants to compete to take me off the market, then don't show up at all."

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    Default Re: Stimulating Date ideas for Mature Persons?

    I see what you mean my man. I'm not too much of a make-up person, but I enjoy being able to parade around a girl who likes to look nice and take care of herself.

    I guess you're just going to have to look harder. If a woman isn't taking care of herself on the outside, she probably doesn't take care of much other stuff, like what she eats, what she drinks, how she lives at home, how she treats others.

    Good luck man!

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    Default Re: Stimulating Date ideas for Mature Persons?

    You know what man, I take what I said back.

    A lot of these women may not have been treated properly in their youth. They may be frustrated, depressed, lonely, un-motivated, & feeling like all their past efforts to attract good men were in vain. So be different. Try to accept them for who they are, for what they have gone through, and for what they have to offer. Be a gentleman to them. Once they notice the type of man you are and how you treat them like a lady, and realize how much of a prize you really are, and how men like you are scarce in today's society, and because you can see past their outer facade, they will come around and do whatever they can to please you.

    Remember, leave them better than you found them!


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