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    somethingaweful is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Something about me puts people off

    And I dont know what it is. Not just with girls but some men too.

    About me, im 23, considered very good looking by nearly everyone I meet(should do modeling etc) but shy. 6ft slightly skinny(ottermode just not as ripped)

    But there is something I do, or 'wrong' with me that puts people off and I need someone to recommend a way for me to figure it out. Is it my shyness? People think I dont like them cause Im shy and good looking guys arent shy? Sometimes I come off a little cocky which I've read if you're good looking can negatively effect your outcomes. Sometimes I also have a hard time making conversation could that be a reason too? Im at a loss here.

    To figure this out should I be boring one night, and completely the opposite the next night? Really need help on this.

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    Default Re: Something about me puts people off

    The combination of being shy and cocky seems really strange. Perhaps people think you're so cocky you don't even want to talk to them, and completely miss the shyness.

    Following this piece of advice can help you overcome your trouble making conversation quickly and shyness in the long run.

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    somethingaweful is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Something about me puts people off

    It is weird. Now that you mention it I think Im coming across as too cocky and not enough funny. Gonna have to watch myself on that.


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