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    Default Should she think you are nice???

    so here's this chick , obviously comfortable with me , I can touch her hands , face and only sometimes her hair ...

    and I'm pretty much in control of the conversations and the situations and every thing ... I argue every now and then ... bla bla bla

    and I'm 100% comfortable , like always and too proud of myself..

    and I have this wing man who just say things that pisses her off ...

    so , I tell her I'm going somewhere and she should join and she says she has to study , then after talkin I tell her "ytf u waste my time? just tell me u dont like me" and she says "oh i like u , u r so nice , but i don't have time for boys"

    explain for me please :???


    also so if you look at a girl that you like and she doesn't notice , then look at her a few minute later and she notices this time and keeps staring at you ... does it mean anything?

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    Default Re: Should she think you are nice???

    Why did you flip out and ask her to just tell you she doesn't like you? Is it not possible that she has to study, or that she's on her period and can't go somewhere? I don't understand why guys flip out like that and ask suicidal questions. A multitude of reasons could be behind her not wanting to go out; my own girlfriend sometimes turns down dates cus she has things to do. I once met a girl who turned me down 3 times and agreed the 4th, to tell me the she refused the first 3 times because she thought she was too fat so needed to go to the gym before meeting me! If a girl says she can't then wish her a good time studying, and ask her out again later. But unless she's madly in love with you, by asking the question the way you did, you drove her to answer that way. And train your wingman better or find a new one; what good is a wing who pisses women off?? Lastly, that situation where you ask what it means when you look at her and she ignores you, and then you look at her and she looks at you, it means nothing. Absolutely nothing (or more accurately, too many possibilities to even guess). Stop over-analyzing which way she turns her head, how fast she turns her head, her breathing patterns, how much she blinks, etc... and just talk to her to find out what she's like.

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    Default Re: Should she think you are nice???

    Quote Originally Posted by thisisSPARTAAAA View Post
    Why did you flip out and ask her to just tell you she doesn't like you? Is it not possible that she has to study, or that she's on her period and can't go somewhere? I don't understand why guys flip out like that and asks suicidal questions. A multitude of reasons could be behind her not wanting to go out; my own girlfriend sometimes turns down a date cus she has things to do. I once met a girl who turned me down 3 times and agreed the 4th, to tell me the she refused the first 3 times because she thought she was too fat so needed to go to the gym before meeting me! If a girl says she can't then wish her a good time studying, and ask her out again later. But unless she's madly in love with you, by asking the question the way you did, you drove her to answer that way. And train your wingman better or find a new one; what good is a wing who pisses women off??
    I'm not sure if it's suicidal ... !?

    and if she refuses and I keep asking it'd look like and is BEGGING.

    so you're saying she's madly in love , and I should try again later?

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    Default Re: Should she think you are nice???

    Nooooooooooooooo. If you read it again carefully, I said, UNLESS she is madly in love with you (which, by now, is apparently not the case), what you did was suicide. No, she is not madly in love; she probably only liked you a little, or not; I don't know but now you are no longer able to find out. But by telling her to stop wasting your farking time and just reject you, that is pretty much suicide. It tells her that you are rejected a lot so you are seeing the pattern again and already know it's coming. Girls do NOT want to be with guys who get rejected often. Also, whether or not it looks like you are begging depends on how you ask. If you just say, "Hey, my friends and I are getting a drink tonight; do you wanna come?" then that is in no way, shape, or form, begging, even if you ask 4-5 times, given there is a few days in between each time you ask and each time, you are asking her to go to a new event instead of trying to change her mind on a prior event. Anyway, it is finished here; I really don't think you have a chance anymore.

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    Default Re: Should she think you are nice???

    Yeah my dude sparta is right you hung yourself on this one. You can't force her into anything and barking at her is only gonna make it worse. By being laid back and carefree girls will see that as a DHV. Just because she doesn't want to hang out one time or can't gives you no reason to get mad at her. There are times girls want to hang out and I say I can't just because i'm not feeling it at the time or I'm truly busy and it has nothing to do with them. Oh and yeah sounds like you wingman sucks, a guys friends portray him so if you have rude irritable friends shes gonna wonder why you hang out with jerks.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: Should she think you are nice???

    Yes, to me the user Sparta tells the truth: "Girls do NOT want to be with guys who get rejected often"

    And for this subject, doesn't matter if you try to be nice...

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    Default Re: Should she think you are nice???

    Quote Originally Posted by sssha View Post
    so here's this chick , obviously comfortable with me , I can touch her hands , face and only sometimes her hair ...

    and I'm pretty much in control of the conversations and the situations and every thing ... I argue every now and then ... bla bla bla

    and I'm 100% comfortable , like always and too proud of myself..

    and I have this wing man who just say things that pisses her off ...

    so , I tell her I'm going somewhere and she should join and she says she has to study , then after talkin I tell her "ytf u waste my time? just tell me u dont like me" and she says "oh i like u , u r so nice , but i don't have time for boys"

    explain for me please :???


    also so if you look at a girl that you like and she doesn't notice , then look at her a few minute later and she notices this time and keeps staring at you ... does it mean anything?
    Bro never ever ever ask a girl that. That is a massive DLV u are an alpha male u know she likes u. U were totally in controle besides why do u think that she's gonna drop everything just to go out with u maybe she has something that she can't put off careful i'm not saying she can put u off but be understanding.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.


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