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    Default Girl hints at sex, but then disqualifies herself.

    Just some background first: I've known this girl for about six months. And we've haven't been intimate at all, but she hasn't really done or said anything that would make me think that I was in the friend zone. I wasn't really interested at first, but now she's starting to grow on me a bit.

    The last time we hung out, she was talking about possibly going to the beach for a few days with some of her friends (she has a lot of male friends, probably more than female) and was hinting at bringing me along. She said that people would need to share beds in the hotel because of money issues and was saying how she would have to share a bed with someone that she would never think of being intimate with and talked about one of her guy friends that would fit the bill. I then replied by saying something along the lines of that I don't blame her for not trusting herself around me if we shared the same bed. She then said something akin to "If we have sex, then we have sex, as long as no one makes it weird." As if it would be no big deal to her. Then later that night I was saying how I was meeting someone later so I had to leave. Which led to her assuming that it was a date and she said that I needed a girlfriend that was less wild because she was too wild for me, which I think might be true.

    So at this point I'm pretty confused. Can anyone make any sense out of this for me?
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    Default Re: Girl hints at sex, but then disqualifies herself.

    The reason she is attracted to you is because you have shown no interest. The worst thing you could do now is become needy by showing her that your attracted to her.
    I think your best move would be to play some cheeky game that involves a lot of kino next time you two are alone.
    And then make a move,
    It will be a ballsy move, but i would bet my left nut it will pay off

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    Default Re: Girl hints at sex, but then disqualifies herself.

    Question: were the stars and planets aligned when she brought this proposal to you?

    Personally, I would take the offer and seducer as soon as possible, IF you are into her that much. If you screwed her the right way then she is most likely YOURS from now on; but don't do that if she isn't someone you'd really want to be with, or unless you fancy the idea of having a fuck buddy. I think she's too much of a coward to ask you for sex straight up, so she is hinting the possibility of sex with you. But don't most hotels have TWO beds per room these days? LOL.

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    Default Re: Girl hints at sex, but then disqualifies herself.

    Thanks for the quick replies guys. The problem is we seem to only hang out in public together. What do you think would be the best way to go about getting a kiss in public or possibly getting her alone in private?

    Also, do you think that her disqualifying herself means that she is not interested in a relationship or was that just a test?
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    Default Re: Girl hints at sex, but then disqualifies herself.

    Quote Originally Posted by PUA_Neo View Post
    Thanks for the quick replies guys. The problem is we seem to only hang out in public together. What do you think would be the best way to go about getting a kiss in public or possibly getting her alone in private?

    Also, do you think that her disqualifying herself means that she is not interested in a relationship or was that just a test?
    irrelevant whether she wants a relationship or not. She is testing your alpha credentials. You'll need to have sex with her as a fark buddy for awhile first and see if she comes around but don't even dare verbalize relationship. If its going to happen it will gorw from regular sex.

    Get her in private, get it on with her, worry about relationship later.

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    Default Re: Girl hints at sex, but then disqualifies herself.

    Okay, that makes sense, but I have two more questions. What's the best way to get her alone? Like I said earlier, we haven't ever hung out at each other houses before. So are there any hints that I could drop or techniques I could use to get her alone?

    Also, would going for a kiss in public be acceptable in this situation to start things off in the right direction or should I skip that and just go right for isolation and seduction?
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    Default Re: Girl hints at sex, but then disqualifies herself.

    Well, if you guys are alone on an anonymous street somewhere it might be okay for the kiss close but if its in front of her/your friends she won't go for it unless it can be rationalized away in her mind like "I was drunk"

    take her shopping with you. Tell her you met a new girl and need some hot new threads to take her out in. Then make sure you look hot, etc and just kino the sh1t out of her everywhere you go. Read my guide on kino escalation in the members lounge for a start.

    Kino her, tease her for about an hour or so at the mall bouncing her baround stores. Make her try stuff on in front of you, etc. Then afterwards ask her over to your place or other private spot and escalate to making out.

    Kino escalation is what will get you laid you just need time to pull it off. How you do that is up to you.

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    Default Re: Girl hints at sex, but then disqualifies herself.

    Thanks for the advice. Unfortunately, Kino is currently one of my sticking points, but I think that this is just the motivation that I need to improve it and your guide was a good start.
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    Default Re: Girl hints at sex, but then disqualifies herself.

    Shes into you. I would say just throw her against the wall and start kissing her out of left field. This will show your interested enough and you'll fark her easily...Just do what a man would do....

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    Default Re: Girl hints at sex, but then disqualifies herself.

    Seems like she's into you, or at least she likes seeing your sexual reactions. Either way, getting her into a private setting should not be too hard. You should ask her to go to somewhere private just like you would ask someone you were not nervous about, "hey, let's go back to my house." If you can think of a thing to do there, that would also help "Let's go back to the apartment and smoke a bowl" Remember, don't ask this, suggest this.

    I also agree with them, that kino always works. No matter how you play this, you need to get her used to your touch. Start by reaching out and touching her wrist or forearm when you say something significant, or touching your knees when you sit next to each other, or bumping her elbow a bit when you walk next to each other. Don't face her with your body regularly, reward her with it. If she reacts positively, escalate over the course of a few days to more intimate areas of touching (lower back, neck, hair). If she reacts neutrally, escalate slowly. If she reacts poorly, she is not probably attracted to you, but is vain and enjoys your sexual attention.


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