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    I met a girl on fb last week. We texted some and then we met last sunday for frozen yogurt. It was only for about 30 minutes bc I had to be somewhere and she seemed to be kind of in a rush. Anyways I asked her to hang out again and she said sure. So we set it up for thursday night at 7. We picked thursday bc thats the only day she has off. We are going to go try a new little restaurant we have in town. The thing is we live in a small town so theres not much to do other than bowling, movies, puttputt and stuff like that. Also, should I ask her how long she has to hang out? Idk if that would sound afc or not. She usually has to get up early in the mornings so I feel like I can't keep her out very long. So should I ask her how long she has? and what is something we could do after we eat bc I know its tough to do kino on a dinner date.

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    Default Re: 2nd Date Question

    That's AFC man...

    If she seriously can't stay out for long, she'll let you know. Go alpha brother, this is all about what YOU want. (Unless you eventually get into a serious intimate relationship. Regardless, these days, sex usually comes before relationship)

    Even if she can't to begin with, half the time women won't care, because they're having such a good time with you


    Watch a movie at your house!!!! Seriously. Simplest, and cheapest/free dates are the best. You'll be able to isolate, and kino all your want!


    If you haven't kissed her, make SURE this happens on your next date. Usually you should kiss on the first date, but since you were both legitimately pressed for time, it's understandable.



    e.g. my last two dates went as such

    Date 1:

    -Picked girl up

    -Drove around doing random things, going anywhere (it was night, and most things were closed Lol)

    -Built Kino

    -Made out multiple times

    -Dropped her off and went home

    Date 2:

    -Picked girl up

    -Brought to my house to watch movie

    -watched 10 minutes

    -started making out, and then I farked her on my couch

    -watched rest of movie while eating ice cream

    -brought her back home



    It is quite literally that simple when done correctly. Those two dates only cost me gas.



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    Default Re: 2nd Date Question

    And don't say "hang out" again to a girl. It's like you're asking her to put you in the firend-zone. It sounds to buddy buddy. Definitely don't ask her how long she has until she has to go home; it makes her feel too "standard" about the situation. I once dated a girl from 12pm to 7am at which point she had to go home and get ready for work without sleep. Love should be crazy like that!

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    Default Re: 2nd Date Question

    Quote Originally Posted by thisisSPARTAAAA View Post
    And don't say "hang out" again to a girl. It's like you're asking her to put you in the firend-zone. It sounds to buddy buddy. Definitely don't ask her how long she has until she has to go home; it makes her feel too "standard" about the situation. I once dated a girl from 12pm to 7am at which point she had to go home and get ready for work without sleep. Love should be crazy like that!

    I agree. INSTEAD, say something like, "hey, you should come over my place". Hence you're not using the term "hang out", and are straight forward with suggesting what you two should do. Which ever way you put it, DO NOT make it sound like a "friend" hangout (unless she has a boyfriend, but that's another story), and DO NOT make it a question.
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