I'll go through the facts quickly.
She has a boyfriend.
We hired her recently.
Im 5 years older, no kids. I make a significant amount of money. (not sure if this has anything to do with it).
Thought I was getting signals of attraction from her. Cute girl. More shy than not.
Playing with hair a lot, Lots of shoe dangling, not necessarily when talking to me but in a group with me. Our workplace is all girls.
Smile and head tilt. Eye contact.
I enjoyed watching the subtle body language.
Not sure if it was real or just something I've made out to be more than it was.
But now I've noticed she makes sure she does not sit next to me at meetings, or its something Im' reading into.
I know that I'm married and I'm her boss and should NOT pursue anything.
But I just wanted to see what people thought of the body language / signals.
Do girls play with their hair just randomly?
Do girls dangle their shoes just randomly?
Could it just be a habit that the do?
And I shouldn't read anymore into it.
I just don't to be some creepers reading the body language wrong.
Another thing that threw me off was after work (only 20 mins after) she called me, asking me a work related question, I'm positive she had the answer to...
And if she didn't have the answer, it could have waited to the next day.
Tips, advice? Are these IOI's?