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    DrDre007 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to get a girl who rejected you before

    Hi all, I'm new at this, but I give it a shot

    I met this girl in one of my classes, and she sits next to me. I've already asked her out a couple of times, but I have never got a definite "yes" answer from her because she usually say "maybe" or "I will see". My question is should I continue pursuing this girl? or I have already blew my chances with her?. If I should continue pursuing this girl, What is the right way to approach her without her looking at me as a desperate person?

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    Default Re: How to get a girl who rejected you before

    approach differently.... the nature of you asking her out was probably very date like. So since you guys are in class together, ask her if she wnats to study at the library with you before your next test. Small steps...

    If classes are over and you wondering how to take one final shot... is invite her out and tell her to bring some friends to a party u and your boys are attending .. less threatening to her.

    Another option is, just dont acknowledge her for a while .. focus on yourself.. find a few jokes here and there .. give a 2-3 window of silence (aka freezeout), then text her and try to grab ice cream with her or something for the summer. It shouldn't be too hard... girls don't say no to you because you are not attractive.. they prefer you to be more unique in your approach before they commit.

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    Default Re: How to get a girl who rejected you before

    Thank you for the answer. I forgot about the baby steps. What is 2-3 window of silence? is it

    like you ignore her for a day or two?

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    Default Re: How to get a girl who rejected you before

    i had a typo .. haha 2-3 weeks window of silence.. so 2-3 weeks of ignoring her completely.

    gaming requires some patience depending on the environment you are doing..

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    Default Re: How to get a girl who rejected you before

    Thanks but I don't have that much time because I get out for summer in 8 days. I guess I

    should wait until next semester to start off fresh with her. But what should I do?

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    Default Re: How to get a girl who rejected you before

    after your last exam with her .. you say .. "it's be really cool if we could hangout this summer. I don't even think you can handle not seeing me for 4 months. giggle giggle* line line line* ... then drop me your number, we'll definately climb up trees and be silly!

    it's different than .. give me your number, you are hot and i want to do terrible things with you... hahaha

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    Default Re: How to get a girl who rejected you before

    I've already got her number, but she didn't even text me back. Have I screwed my chances up?

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    Default Re: How to get a girl who rejected you before

    nope... wait a bit and try again.

    relax and have some fun with it.. gaming is like playing video games... you are supposed to have fun in the process of defeating the game.. not be worrying and stressing.

    try a different approach and try to start with a joke to get her attention, just to get the ball rolling.

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    Default Re: How to get a girl who rejected you before

    Thank you, I got 8 days left to win her over, if not I guess at least I tried


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