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    adamw5963 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How often to ask a girl to hangout without being needy?

    I've gone 2 mini dates with this hb. The first one was a week ago and it was just getting ice cream for 30 minutes. She seemed kinda in a hurry plus I told her I had to be at my grandmas. She gave me some IOIs and I hugged her at the end but other than that no kino . The next date was last thursday. We just went to eat at night bc she always works weekends. We were gonna play puttputt after the dinner but it was almost closing time and she didnt want to be rude to the workers. She kept talking about how she was so tired and had been busy all day. So I let her go. She was giving my IOIs all through dinner and asking me questions though. I hugged her again and rubbed her arms. But like an idiot I still didnt try to kiss her. It has been 3 days since then and we text 4 or 5 times a day. She usually initiates it. Should I go on and ask her to go out again or will that seem too needy? Oh and she hasnt really given me any compliments other than I'm a great big brother. If that matters at all haha.

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    Default Re: How often to ask a girl to hangout without being needy?

    great big brother .... uh oh.. she's too comfortable with you ... it could mean either next date you move FAST and try to pull something or you are in the friendzone. I guess it could make sense the fact she kept saying how tired she is = she doesnt want you to get ideas to do more thingsd with her.. she's trying to keep things simple.

    BUT! she is STILL hanging out with you, so there is still hope. just leave one day with no text, even if she initiates, just text her back a day later and say you were really busy and it'd be nice to see her to "insert activity" and catch dinner afterwards and see whats up from there.

    you're in the 50/50 chance here I'd say, but having that been said.. it'll go either way depending on your next outting with her.

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    adamw5963 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How often to ask a girl to hangout without being needy?

    She meant i was a great big brother my little brother not to her haha.

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    Default Re: How often to ask a girl to hangout without being needy?

    oh, then you're golden! go for the kill soon, don't be shy .. she's saying yes .. means she's giving you a chance...


    reputation or "thanks" me if you like my help!

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    Default Re: How often to ask a girl to hangout without being needy?

    Saying she is tired etc, could be becuase she want's you too think " Don't bother asking me back to your place OR making a move on me " She sounds a little rushed with you, but then the fact remains that she wanted to see you in the first place, so maybe she is shy, inexperienced or just wanted male company.

    The possibilities are endless on either side of the fence.

    The big brother comment is the icing on the cake for the friend zone though in my eyes. Good luck brother and throw a passionate kiss on her so she knows your intentions.

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    Default Re: How often to ask a girl to hangout without being needy?

    Sounds like you need to spice it up, and get things rollin a little quicker amigo.

    Couple of things, with the ice cream and dinner dates u know that's the boring, 'relationship' things to do, before your in one (at least in pua game). But you said it was her idea from her terribly busy day (not doggin her but still)

    Plus I'm guessing she's been in an LTR or two so that's how she thinks. You gotta make her follow you next time to be the man in charge, right?

    But it sounds like she's givin IOIs so just take the lead a little. You could even text her sometin funny like hey our little ice cream date was cute but... This time it's gonna be (sometin more edgy ha)

    Good luck game on..


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