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    Lightbulb Opener for a shy girl?

    What is a good opener for a shy girl?

    What techniques would you apply after the opener to get the girls number?

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    Default Re: Opener for a shy girl?

    Can you give a little detail beyond just shy? That's fairly broad. Maybe describe some of the other characteristics that these shy women have that you are attracted to?
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    Default Re: Opener for a shy girl?

    No I mean is there an opener that would be better suited for a shy girl rather than an opener for a rowdy girl. And than for the second part of the question in "the game" mystery always says to have the girl give you their number. But I'm a shy girls case what would I do?

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    Default Re: Opener for a shy girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by Logan247 View Post
    No I mean is there an opener that would be better suited for a shy girl rather than an opener for a rowdy girl. And than for the second part of the question in "the game" mystery always says to have the girl give you their number. But I'm a shy girls case what would I do?
    Yeah, don't neg them. "Shy" really means "less self esteem than the 10 who leads the group" so she may just be Low Self Esteem.

    The best opener for a shy girl, if she is a part of an obvious group, is to compare her favorably to the 10 who leads her group. Say something like "Hey, I see you standing here sorta watching your friend over there get all the attention! You are *far* too cute for a guy like me to let something like that happen to you. How are you?"

    Another might be:

    "Ya know, your friend over there is quite an attractive woman, but for some reason I feel you are more my type. How are you?"

    these sorts of comments are gold to shy, yet pretty girls who never get any attention and will usually get a bit jealous that their leader girls get all the guys, all the drinks for free, etc while they just play supporting actress roles.

    Remember to always take advantage of any negative social dynamic(such as group rivalry and competition) within the female group, there are always plenty to exploit.

    Cleverly undermining the authority of the leader chick is often an essential, if underknown, concept in PU because the idea is to split the girl off from the group and if she feels her leader girl is getting all the glory, this becomes much easier. Exploit that instinct and try to make the shy girl jealous of her leader through subtle verbal manipulation.

    Remember that getting the number is not the goal. Getting the lay is. The number is just one of many paths one can take to getting to the lay. Don't obsess over the number, that is what you get if the interaction looks like it will end to early. You should be going for higher goals. Like a kiss close.

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    Default Re: Opener for a shy girl?

    silicone u just said everything i wanted to say and more. I hate u man ! u're always beating me to the punch anyway rep for u

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    Default Re: Opener for a shy girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    silicone u just said everything i wanted to say and more. I hate u man ! u're always beating me to the punch anyway rep for u
    Sorry man, my job leaves me with entirely too much time on my hands sometimes.

    But on the other hand, when I'm up at the campus playing PU with college girls. Their cliquish behavior can either be an impediment, or an advantage. Which one can often be up to the player himself.

    In a high target environment like a college off-campus club, you have to be a master of group dynamics and how to separate a woman from a group of people who will do everything within their power to prevent it without the girl specifically telling them to back off.

    The best way I've found for me personally, is to introduce subtle feelings of jealousy amongst the group, just enough to peel off an 8.5 from her 10 "party girl" friend. If she temporarily despises the 10 for being all outgoing and leaderish then the target is begging to be separated by the time its over.

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    Default Re: Opener for a shy girl?

    ^Damn Silicon. I've never thought of it that way (hitting on her less attractive friend by lowering the 10's value and raising the shy girl's self-esteem.) Ima have to try that out. Thanks!
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    Default Re: Opener for a shy girl?

    Wow that's a huge help. Thanks man

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    Default Re: Opener for a shy girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by mr.onethousand View Post
    ^Damn Silicon. I've never thought of it that way (hitting on her less attractive friend by lowering the 10's value and raising the shy girl's self-esteem.) Ima have to try that out. Thanks!
    I figured this out quick because on the campus I play at, the girls are all rich spoiled princesses and they are always conscious of social value. But the girls are ALL hot. So you end up with a true 10 followed around by half a dozen 8's and 9's who feel like 6's and 7's a lot of the time. The 10 will only get with the sexiest men in the venue, of which I almost never am.

    So I compensate by exploiting group dynamics to hit on an almost as hot friend. I love shy girls more often because they look so damn cute standing there looking all wide eyed and uncomfortable and "innocent". Ride in and white knight the shy girl. Shshe's been waiting for you.

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    Your post just made me go from being a guest to being a member thank you


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