Just joined this forum, some great reads all round, i must say.
I have been out of the dating game for a year, due to different reasons and recently got chatting to a girl that added me on facebook ( i used to speak to her on msn around 2 years ago but was just a bit of chit chat ). Anyway she was being very nice, writing properly ie no slang, saying words like babe, baby etc, complimenting me on my looks and personality after we had spoken for a few weeks. She has great aspirations in life, wanting to be a doctor and is studying medicine, she is small, cute and very outgoing. So this was perfectly what i have been looking for since my last girlfriend! Someone hot but who has a great personality.
Anyway, I asked her out and she said yes, leading to the date she was saying in texts things like " really excited to see you " " Nervous to see you cos i don't wanna mess it up " blah blah.. Also she was being quite dirty in some texts and we exchanged a few of those, as you do.
We met up Saturday just gone, from the off she was touching me, flirting and then held my hand right away ( WTF is running though my head right now ) It tripped me out, it felt like she was my girlfriend or something. So i took her to a nice rustique pub, held some meaningful conversation, i was NOT just blabbing, was asking questions where she would feel something. She spoke 80% to my 20%. She was talking good, interesting stuff, not just boring old everyday sh1t.
Then we went to another place, sat outside, she was kissing me within 5 minutes, telling me she loves my lips, kissing, she loved me touching her body etc etc etc.
It literally felt like we had been dating for a year, THAT comfortable. I must add, at no point of us speaking have i been needy, un-confident or boring. I was cool, confident, she was laughing, enjoying everything. So we said goodbye after she mauled me again for more kissing. Then that night she was texting sexy things " when you had hold of me before i had so many naughty thoughts " Then she was more detailed of what she wanted to do, use your imagination here.
The next day, i felt VERY flat, and i do not know why. She was taking 1-2 hours to reply ( and no she was not working or busy ) and being more basic and shorter with me.
So she knows i am interested ( not in a weird, needy way ) She knows i want to f*** her and she knows i want to see her again - She asked me for the second date as she said she liked everything about me.
Today, she has been taking hours to reply, latest was 4 hours!! ( she has her phone glued to her )
Now i am thinking:
1: She does generally like me, but she is trying to seem disinterested so i chase her and 'like' her more.
2: She wanted to flirt and tease all along, getting me to think she is very interested in me, so i talk dirty back, kiss her back etc. Now she is simply just playing a game and is not very interested at all.
I am CONFUSED, not in a way of that i am gonna chase her, just do not know how to say nicely " if you're just farking around playing games i aint interested ".
THOUGHTS PLEASE, GUYS!!!