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    Default Is a bar ok for a first date?

    So straight up, in a bar/pub we can speak freely and easily, have a drink and relax. Correct??

    We have been speaking for AGES, she has past a lot of tests that i have given her so i am looking forward to it. She is not a slut so i want to be respectable.

    P.S i said " I have noticed something about you, but i cannot tell " and 15 minutes later after begging me to tell her and the conversation had changed she said " So when you taking me out? :P " absolute madness that this psychology trick actually worked the first time i used it.

    Any tips are welcomed for the date, cheers fellas.

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    Default Re: Is a bar ok for a first date?

    Bars have worked very well for me. I find its a good idea to bar hop to a couple different places to help build comfort quickly. Then you should have no problem closing.

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    Default Re: Is a bar ok for a first date?

    Bars ok, but be creative, unless your just trying to get laid- which is ok
    But if you like her a little more take the lead some more too..

    It's a little cliche now but sushi bar dates have worked well for me. That way u sorta have dinner but plenty of interaction around, and u can bump it up to a music show or another bar after. Plus sushi is an aphrodisiac I believe

    Last summer I dated a girl for 6 months, who I actually met at a bar. She was cool but it was always a little wild and out of control cuz we only went on dates at bars, it was like a weird cycle I couldn't get out of with her. It was fun while it lasted though.

    Anyways, sushi bar date and sometin creative before or after id suggest for that bro.

    Cheers!

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    Default Re: Is a bar ok for a first date?

    Looked back, and my last post does sound a little AFC, but its not if u kinda get the best of both worlds. If you do take her to a regular bar to chill the first time around its good to know ppl at the bar, bounce around a bit, or meetup with some friends too. Just sayin

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    Default Re: Is a bar ok for a first date?

    Bar hopping is good so neither of you get bored. Select your venues with caution though; you want to portray the right image. Like Infrared said, sushi bars are great because you have a stimulating environment beyond the typical bar scene. You want to make it clear that you want her to have fun, and that you're not just taking her to sleezy bars to get her drunk. Live music is something I take girls to frequently and it predominantly works well for me.
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    Default Re: Is a bar ok for a first date?

    Bars are great. I always start at this one place that has a quirky French tennis vibe, so it's kind of fun and romantic and get cocktails to share. Then bounce to a bar which has these intimate booths and go for the kiss close. I find it a good idea to go for a hand hold/arm link during the bounce from 1st to 2nd venue to slowly build up the physical contact, rather than going straight to hooking up.

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    Default Re: Is a bar ok for a first date?

    I agree with you guys, cheers for the feedback. I hate sushi so that's out of the question, thinking a nice bar then bounce to somewhere else with some live music on.

    I don't wanna put to much pressure on the venue, I want her to remember me, not the bar we went to. But obviously standards have to be set by us guys.

    Sounds daft but, do you lot have a specific time you like to go out and meet your date?

    - A

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    Default Re: Is a bar ok for a first date?

    Sure, invite her to meet you for drinks at a bar preferably close to your pad. Then after a bit at the bar invite her back to your place and try and get physical if she comes over.


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